After leaving the TVB nest last year, Raymond Lam (林峯) focused his efforts on his music career and filming in Mainland. With more freedom to regulate his own schedule, the 36-year-old learned to stop being a workaholic and instead focus on enjoying his life. “Before, my life consisted only of work. Even if they gave me a day off, I wouldn’t know what to do. People say that we should work more and make more money while we’re young so we don’t have to fret [about money] when we’re older. I don’t agree with this. By the time I’m older, I wouldn’t have the energy or motivation [to vacation]! At that time, how will I go skydiving? How will I go scuba diving?” With this new mindset, Raymond makes sure to take breaks in between filming and go on vacation with his girlfriend, Karena Ng (吳千語). Raymond shared that while the couple would choose a destination together, Karena usually plans the trips. “This is her strength. I don’t have the patience to research these things online and I am not as good as her when it comes to planning. We would go ice skating on a frozen lake. We’ve also gone canoeing for seven or eight hours and got sun burned. But this is part of the enjoyment of a vacation.” Despite the public scrutiny about their 14-year-age gap, the couple remains in a stable and loving relationship. Being deemed as a diamond bachelor, Raymond does not feel like he is missing out on other dating opportunities. “I don’t think about things like that. It’s very precious when you are able to meet someone whom you are compatible with and are on the same frequency. Karena has inspired me in many ways! It’s not about giving up other prospective girls, but about finding someone you are compatible with and walking your life’s path with them.” Creds: Oncc
