Regret dumping you

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by smallrinilady, Nov 19, 2007.

  1. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    has someone ever regret dumping you?
    if so, how did you react?





    an old old old ex seems to now be regretting ever dumping me
    aw sounds cute right?
    but whether or not i still care about him (which I do)
    he dumped me for a girl who was cute, that's about it

    but just the way that he transitioned over, is a bit unforgivable

    now that he's trying to weave his way back into my life
    it's hard to resist, but i kinda refuse to let him get his way

    Any you guys ever go through something similar?
    how do you guys deal with the situation?
     
  2. chookie

    chookie Active Member

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    well.. personally, i didnt really go through it, and kinda did in a way. its a long story to explain.
    but i think if he's trying to get back with you now, it depends on you to whats gonna happen.
    if you have feelings for him, then i guess its not a bad idea to give him another chance, but i think you should be harsh with him, so he knows that this is gonna be hard from what he did to you before.
     
  3. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    never went through something like this...but if i would have...i dont think my pride would let me go back
    i mean there must be a reason he broke up with me and i assume he thought it through before he did...
    so no....i dont think so
     
  4. burnburn

    burnburn Well-Known Member

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    it's never happened to me, but a girl i was chasing rejected me. when i dated another girl, she tried to get me back... i said "bad luck!" hahaha.

    no damaged goods please.
    if i sell a car, i don't think i'd buy it back if it's for sale again.

    :) things happen for a reason. you guys broke up so that you can find someone better!
    and not like you guys broke off on good terms... (eg, he had to go away for a while... so you both agreed to end it)
     
  5. karoen

    karoen Well-Known Member

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    i didnt have such a situation before...but this seems to me like...well i come back to u...because its over with the other girl...u should say no...cuz he's kinda doing with u what he wants...and u shouldnt just let him do that...see, he dumped u and now he's like coming back from nowhere and says he regrets it...if u really still have feelings for him, let him prove it first...that he really means it to get back with u...before u get hurt another time...wish ya good luck :) ps: if u want to...let me know how it went -^_^
     
  6. xmoonydax

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    I've never gone through that situation before... something similar though. I dumped a guy for well his ridiculously and how he used to beg me a lot. It was a little weird actually. But now that we're separated and since we have all the same friends (lucky me...yah right...) he tries weird things... Like impressing me or what not. And no that was not my opinion. My best friend's. =P
     
  7. Aznguy123

    Aznguy123 Well-Known Member

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    :O dumping you then regret it??? LOLS!!! j/k
    if he dumps you... he must've beeen 100% sure when he walked away with taht answer and not even turning his head a little..... if i were you......... NO WAY YOU ARE GHEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the answer would be no..

    how would i react???? hmmm
    next time you see him:
    Boy: hi!!!! how are you...
    Girl: ummm... lets see..... hmmm..so you want me back eh?....well..... I WAS LIVING a GOOD LIFE UNTIL YOU FUCKING RUINED IT( then smiles) now fuck off you loser......
    Boy: how mean of you... (feels bad)
    Girl: evil lauggh !!

    can you give us an update of how it went?????
     
  8. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    Wow are you guys serious? Non of you have gotten back with an ex?


    I've had a ton of friends who got back together with their Exs, somewhere along the line regret must have been in half of their situations
    Same thing happened with my sister, her bf dumped her three times cause he was a momma's boy
    in the end they got married
     
  9. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    yeah i was dead serious...and one of the things ive learned from my previous relationship...if u dump someone...
    and they ask u to take em back cuz they've changed...dont do it either dude....
    u didnt break up with em for no reason....
     
  10. liltigger23

    liltigger23 Well-Known Member

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    i've dated someone twice before
    it's horrid

    exactly...
    i forgot why i broke up with him.. dating him again made me realize.. so we broke up rly quickly..
    he didnt change one bit.. it's dumb
     
  11. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    been in same situation..
    didnt take him back...

    an EX = an EX... no way back in my life! even that I still care about him =)
     
  12. ab289

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    i don't believe in going back with someone u broke up with before. so, NO!
     
  13. that's another reason y i dun speak to any of my ex -lolv
     
  14. tiffystars

    tiffystars Well-Known Member

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    yeh.. i regret once..
    but a few months after...when i read everything he gave me..and all that stuff...at the time ..all the letters n stuff.. i just read it and smiled...didnt read deep into it properly and see how much he liked me back then...
    so i regret so much now...feels as tho i like him again or something..
    but now he moved on...and likes another ..*sigh*
    its life tho...
    once you break up..there must have been a problem..
    and i believe that once you break up..thats it..you werent meant to be together .
     
  15. sakurafossil

    sakurafossil Well-Known Member

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    I totally agree with you on this one!!
     
  16. pijiu

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    I got back once with an ex after she regretted cheating on me, it was a bad mistake on my part to take her back. I think being friends post-relationship is great, it's nice to show there are no harsh feelings left. However, I think it's best just to get on with your life and try find someone who will treat you better.
     
  17. surplusletterbox

    surplusletterbox Well-Known Member

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    complex

    Relationship is a complex matter with lots of variables. Decisions could be made (dumping) on insufficient "facts" or even one does not know what one wants and then experience accumulates. If you like to work on the basis: one step out of line you're out forever then this is the way you work. On the other hand , if you re-evaluate your situations on a revised position there is no reason why you should not give it another go. Afterall most things in life are a learning exercise and refinement is achieved through an iterative process through the same path or different paths.
     
  18. kontradictions

    kontradictions Well-Known Member

    I wouldn't do it. Why? Because the only reasons why he regrets dumping you is because he realizes that either 1) no one besides you can put up with him or 2) no one treats him better than you do. He has his own interest in mind, not yours.
     
  19. cyndy123

    cyndy123 Well-Known Member

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    i never had this situation before. but a guy i liked or loved - not sure has a girlfriend and she looks pretty and he mentioned that am not attractive. Anyway i wouldn't do it even if he wants to date me. I will throw things back at him and say how bad he is. Lol
     
  20. wheezo

    wheezo Well-Known Member

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    well... if he left you for someone "cute" then i would say no...
    but i don't know, some ppl are just curious and figure they're too young to get into any serious relationship...
    until they're readY? it really just depends on what YOU want. don't let pride get into the way, this has nothing to do with pride. just think over what you want to do carefully so that you won't regret nething.