i have many friends knew them for a long time, but i just dont get why we stop hanging out and became a stranger when we see each other. some friends that i just do not trust them at all. i feel like they will back stab me one day. am i know the only one having these problems?
Well .. I agree w/ Vend .. trust yourself .. friends come and go .. people change all the time .. nothing's forever. I know friends for years but turned against me .. The only people you could probably rely on are your family members .. people who love you unconditionally ... those are the ones that will stand by you through thick and thin .. so cherish them. Of course, if you're a few of the fortunate ones ... you might meet some good loyal and trustworthy friends but that's less and less these days. I guess again, Vend's "trust yourself" is your safest bet .. from getting hurt and anything bad at all.
People change from time to time, no matter how good of a relationship you have with them, they can turn on you in an instant. Trust your instincts.
people do change from time to time, however i suggest you stick with a small group. The bond will be stronger.
if you feel that they might stab your back one day.. just keep to yourself but that doesnt mean you cant hang out with them or anything you know? it just all depends
Lol? I have to disagree with you. I think we should all Not everyone is trust worthy, in the beginning they all might act innocent, but when they are jealous they will backstab you. OR When they are in trouble they could shift the blame onto you.
You should ditch that friend, if they try to contact you, ignore them, see them less, talk to them less.
people change over time with different environments.. with time, you'll most likely have very little in common, therefore you dont talk as much? maybe they shouldnt be considered as friends. try doing reunions, rekindle old connections?
