Is it wrong not to want to date someone that you were friends with? Or is okay, but I'm going against the stereotypical female? Actually, it may not be the whole "friend" issue, but that I'm just not interested. I happen to be very sure that a few guys are interested in me, although they haven't mentioned it to me directly (went through my family and friends). <---I'm actually glad they haven't said anything to me. Just imagine the awkwardness that would be involved, especially since some of these guys are my classmates. I can't picture myself involved with anyone of them, it just gives me chills. To put it bluntly, They're just not my type. There's no way i could tell them no, it would make it even more awkward. I don't want to avoid them because I consider them very cool friends to hang out with, but in the end...I try to imagine it and the bubble pops. Any tips on what to do? -cry2 P.S i also need these guys to continue to help me with my studies! -lol
Haha... dont know what to say. -surr Edit: you could just tell them honestly that u just want them to be normal friends instead... -emb
it's okay to date someone that you know as a friend, cuz love just comes without even noticing. if they really like you but your not too sure, try to test them out if they really do like you or not. have some feelings for them, and try to see if they really do like you. if they do, just ask them out or go to the movies. but if your not comfortable with it, just don't ask them out also. if they ask you out to go with them, but you don't like it, just say no, you won't hurt their feelings that bad. if you think they are cool ppl, just hang out with them like regular and act natural.
Friends are usually the best place to start a relationship. And to be honest, a guy who pushes you to succeed is definitely someone you may want to be with. Topic was hard to understand and confusing, you didnt want to start off a relationship as friends? or you did? Also how long have you known these guys?
thats actually so weird, in fact im currently in the same position, except that im one of the guys and that the girl that i KNOW is like avoiding me now. At first i she said she liked me too but now i dont know what happened, for me personally i would think that you shouldnt go out with one of your BESt friends and just stay as best friends, because it will get REALLY awkward if you do date one of them, imagine how the other one would feel!
I don't want a romantic relationship based on a friendship. I think it's too weird and awkward. The people i make friends with are ones that I want to keep as friends. I've known a couple since I've started high school. Basically, I haven't known any of them for more than 2 years.
Thanks man...You sure were nice... It's not like I want to use them, they're are just the type of friends that help me. I'm just trying to look out for the future and try not to screw up a good thing that i have going on now.
keep it positive then. don't date them, just consider them as normal best friends. you don't have to date any of them if you don't like them as a bf. just talk it out abit and they will understand you, since you guys are good friends. -flow
ok so they friends with you and tryin' to get in them pants... so they helping you with your study. once you turn them down... no more study. Just play it cool and pretend ya like 'em so they can still help you with your studying
so you're saying you wouldn't feel embarrassed if someone rejected you like that? and that you'd be able to act like normal?
yes, young one... -master I mean really, seeing as how they wanna step outta the friend zone... they're gonna try to be like all over you... so if you play your cards right, you can probably get them to just do the work for you. Just play like nothing is going on and ya have no idea they like you. The whole confrontation thing might be a lil too much... try to avoid it as much as possible... or at least until you get your work done
dude...you totally read my mind.. In fact that's what I've been doing. (Everyone around me believes I'm just THAT SLOW to pick up on things.)
lol that's a lil too advanced for you right now... in time. Soon you'll be able to make men throw themselves at your feet. Tempt them to do anything for you. And Chuck Huge Energy Fire Balls!! Haaaa!!!! DO KEN!!!
>< HOly.. you're just falling at his feet (err Ecko's not your buddies) Me.. no like you two.. although taking advantage of people is fun.. being taken advantage of is not.. I should know.. >< If you need help.. just ask for it.. in the mean time.. if they don't know that you know.. don't let them know you know.. Live in ignorance.
