Saying 'I love You'

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by brucyy, Jul 8, 2007.

  1. brucyy

    brucyy Member

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    Do girls really like guys to say the magic 3 words to them?
     
  2. asiangang

    asiangang Well-Known Member

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    yep...well, at least i doXD
     
  3. -Tisken-

    -Tisken- Well-Known Member

    lol when u love a person, i think all girls do...
     
  4. Aries

    Aries Well-Known Member

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    It depends on the girl and the state of the relationship. Its ok to express your love to your partner, but sometimes it may be too early for it.
     
  5. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Yes, although there's a saying that action speaks louder than words, but I personally, like a mixture of both. Actions PLUS words. It's no use if the guy keeps saying "I love you" to me, but his actions say otherwise, and I would also like him to say it to me even when his actions already showed that he loves me... Demanding eh?
     
  6. pinkapples

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    Ihh for me....It is quite important but the most important thing is that the 3 magic words comes from his heart and he means it...No point if he goes saying it to all da girls he meets then it won't be no magic words..So yeap, its the meaning and truthfulness behind those 3 words and last but not least its the timing too :p I am very sure guys love to hear it from their girlfrens too so its not really a girlie thing -tongue2
     
  7. i would hate it if he doesn't say it at least once...
     
  8. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    I agree to what pinkapples said.... I like it when guys say it when they mean it...not after dating me 3times or whatever...not after 1 month relationship....
    Also, it's better if he doesnt say it too often...
     
  9. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    I don't want him to say it like 2 days into the relationship. If I can really tell that he means it, I'll like it. But he also has to show it. And if he says it too much, I'll think it's kind of fake, like a routine. It's like when some people are on the phone and they say "bye, i love you" Sometimes thats good but only if there's really feeling behind it. But I guess there isn't always a way to have a lot of feeling everytime someone says it -down
     
  10. philostrate

    philostrate Well-Known Member

    action plus words...you made me think of something lol...
     
  11. lee-lee

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    at least once. i'm not really one of those girls that likes their bf to say mushy things, so once is good enuf for me.
     
  12. aishiteru4

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    yes it is very important!!... i know action speaks louder than words.. but.. words are still important... i need confirmation!!!
     
  13. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Erm, like what eh? -detect
     
  14. pinkapples

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    Lol...I think action is as in in 'action' LOL......Philostrate you are just so dodgy lol.......Now don say you did not meant it that way :D
     
  15. if i love the guy i want him to say it... if i don't i get goosebumps if he says it... i'm stoooooopid i can't really tell when the mean it or they don't... or may b i'm just being naive... i believe the meant the the moment they said the 3 words... but i also believe it when they say they don't love me anymore...
     
  16. Loreen66

    Loreen66 Well-Known Member

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    Depends on how long I've been with the person. If we just went out for only for a few months or less than I week. Those words means nothing to me.
     
  17. aniking_7

    aniking_7 Well-Known Member

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    Hmmm... Sometime is really hard to say for first timer.
     
  18. pinkapples

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    Lol...yeap i totally understand that though I've neva been in a relationship but I know how hard it is to judge. But, for me i think the first thing i would judge is the timing cause if they don take too long to consider and just say it, for me they would be just saying it impulsively. But, if he takes some time to say it, he might have given it a long thought and so it means a lot for him to say it. But, who knows....players know all da skills
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    Lol....I guess it takes experience to know if he means it or in some cases apparently you could see it through his eyes so you try that..:D
     
  19. hahahaha... i can't b bothered doing that... i think i'm just happier to believe it without analyzing it too much... i mite die in a car crash tomorrow... life is too short for doubts :p
     
  20. pinkapples

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    Yeap...fair enough....I guess in my case i must analyse it properly cause i am the type of person that don like to regret for what i've done so in order to achieve that i think things over thoroughly before hand....And expecially finding the right person that loves me which affects my life that must be put into serious consideration....though i do live life to the fullest hahahaha -rockon