Ok.. If an Arguement came Up and You and Your BF/GF Split Up.. Maybe IF The Cheated Or Some Thing... Would You Give Them A Second Chance Or Not? Me: Nah Uh.... Once a Cheat Always A cheat! But if it's other reasons.. then maybe! what about you guys?
hehe. no cheating on my side. If it is an misunderstanding, then of course. But the important thing is communications.
if its cheating then no. if its a stupid argument and i really love him and miss him and stuff then i am willing to give a second chance. but cheating DEFINATELY NOT!
I agree with the majority. Once a cheater, always a cheater, so no deal on this one. But anything else, I will always give a second chance.
I'm a romantically challenged guy so I wouldn't know much about such matters of the human heart ^ ^ () but I guess I can try to at least give a reasonable answer that's somewhat close to what I feel is right--- I'd give the person that I love a second chance since everyone deserves a second chance. it's up to the person to take that very second chance that is offered to them--- and if they don't I'd call it quits ^ ^ () but I won't hate them or let alone hold a grudge against them since it's only normal human nature for them to act in such a way. that very programming of meeting new people is imprinted in our very DNA (You know the whole spreading your seeds thing)
I won't give a second chance to somebody that has cheated, but if it was an argument or some kind of misunderstanding I would.
what is the definition of cheating plz? it is holding hands, kissing, sex, or like Bill Clinton ? I think the first lady Hillary is brave.
cheating is cheating. holding hands, kissing, sex and Bill Clinton are all considered cheating. there is no reason to hold a friends hand. 2nd chances for cheating will never happen on my part. all other situations would really depend on what it is. i broke up with a guy b/c he wouldn't try and understand my family's differences from his (i'm chinese, he's white) later he tried to get back together but didn't want anything to do with my family. so there was just no way for us to work out.
Anything you wouldn't want your significant other to do with other people, and things that you would not tell your significant other about is cheating. So.....if you're cool with your significant other holding somone's hand or kissing someone else, or having sex with someone else, then I guess it's not cheating; but every couple has different tolerance for different things.
I don't know. Most of my friends most likely would give second chances since they don't want to lose a relationship. For me i guess i'll want to learn the whole situation and then decide if the relationship would be worth it to try again. Everyone makes mistakes, but as long as they learn from it, y not?
yup agree with others, i will give no 2nd chance for a cheater... but for others stupid reason probably yes
I gave my ex a second chance after she cheated and after that there was permantent air of mistrust hanging over the relationship. I thought she was gona do it again, she thought I was gona get her back. This lead to our inevitable breakup. From my experience, second chances don't work.
Wow, you're so generous ~-shock C'mon, you should have kicked his ass when he got the nerves to ask for second chance -noclue
