Senior Prom - one of the most important moments that we will always remember for the rest of our lives. ladies, i really your point of view. prom is only 1 week away from today for me, and i don't even have a date to go with :(. i only had my eyes on one girl to go with and that was my friend _ _ _ _ _. during senior yr, i really developed an attraction to her, not because of her looks but because of her personality and the certain interests that we had in common. we became friends (just friends and nothing more) but deep down inside.. i really liked her. anyways, i've thought about asking her to the prom one day and when would be the perfect time to ask her. and so i asked her to the prom (calm and sincere on the outside but nervous and sweaty on the inside). she told me that she would think about it and so i waited for her to answer me back. sigh...she answered me back after about a week, meanwhile we saw each other everyday. she told me that she was just going to the prom with her friends all girls (which means no). i was speechless, i was in the most difficult scenario in my life, but i had to accept her answer and said "ok" with nothing else to say and just left. on that day, i couldn't stop wondering why she didn't want to go to the prom with me, and i couldn't focus on anything else. she's like my dream girl. i tried my best to show her who i was and what i had to offer her, but unfortunatly she never liked me i guess. she's the only girl that i want to go to prom with and no other girl would be close to what she is. days rolled by and her friends comforted me and told me it was alrite and that i should find someone else to go with. but then yesterday, she told me to come to the prom with her and her friends which means that she will be in same the limo with me and at the same table as well. to make matters worst, i was planning to go with my other friends even though everyone else had a date and i didnt. now i'm in a situation that requires a lot of thinking and time (which i dont have -sweat because i'm soo stupid). Do i still have another chance of going to the prom with _ _ _ _ _ just as a friend? because she still doesn't have a date. and if soo, how would i ask her this time around? i really don't care anymore about her being my date, but just seeing her at the prom will be just as magical Should i go with my friends and maybe enjoy the last time being together without a prom date? I really need your help ladies, since maybe u can tell me how _ _ _ _ _ might feel about being asked to the prom and all. plus, how would u want someone to ask you to the prom? P.S- THK U FOR READING THIS LITTLE PASSAGE THAT I WROTE. SRRY ITZ A LIL 2 LONG -unsure
Do her girl friends have dates for the prom? If not, then it's understandable as to why she declined your offer to take her to the prom. I remember a bunch of my girl friends went to the prom without dates. Guys asked them to go as their dates, but they declined their offers because they wanted it to be a girls night out. Anyway, just go to the prom. You're going to see her there anyway. Just because you aren't going as a couple with her, it doesn't mean that you can't have fun with her while there! g'luck.
Men and women will never truely understand each other. It's a fact of life. So it'll be easier for you to just take it as it is. She can have all sorts of reason. Maybe she was testing you, maybe she made prior arrangements and didn't know how to tell you, maybe parents said "no guys 4 u", yada yada yada. So don't think so much about it as it will get you no where. When you showed that you were bummed out when she said no, you showed massive weakness and pretty much told the world that you like her (not a good thing). The best thing for a guy to do is to be a man. In this case, don't crawl to her and be in the same limo. Since it sounds like she'll be heading in without a date... Hang out with your buddies, have a kick ass time. When you see her at the prom, wait for a good time, then go up to her and say hi, ask her for a dance. When you're done with the dance, say you have to go back to your buddies now. If you two did not enjoy each other's company then, the night won't be much fun hanging out with her anyways, so you'll be off the hook. However, if she is interested, just when you're starting to head back to your buddies (aka, having your back turned to her), turn your head back to her and say "you can join me for a little bit *with a sly smile*". If she says ok, offer your hand like a gentlemen, then keep up the fun (and now you have more company). The goal of prom isn't to see who has a date and who doesn't, it's about having FUN. So have a mindset of having a kickass night, and you probably will Don't over analyze the situation, just shrug off what doesn't go your way and keep having fun. P.S. Once a girl puts you in the friend zone, chances of you two becoming more is slim to none.
hell but who's saying that she put him in the "friend" zone maybe she's just shy ask her for a dance or two or more at prom if she declines, tell her that once you guys go to college, it'll be hard to see each other again im sure she'll accept
"we became friends (just friends and nothing more)" "she told me that she would think about it and so i waited for her to answer me back. sigh...she answered me back after about a week, meanwhile we saw each other everyday." That's why I'm saying he's in the friend zone. If the person was just shy, she wouldn't wait a week to tell him no. If she was truely interested and made prior arrangements, she would have sorted out the situation sooner.
