Sex with/without Love?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by BabyRain, May 19, 2007.

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Can you have sex without love?

  1. Yes; I am very open-minded/Love doesn't mean anything to me

    37.3%
  2. No; I can only make love not have sex

    11.9%
  3. Yes;I am a virgin but I believe I can do it without love

    16.9%
  4. No; I am a virgin and I only do it if I love the person/Have sex after marriage

    27.1%
  5. I don't need both/I am a monk

    6.8%
  1. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    So what do you think?

    Are you able to sleep with someone just for the fun of it; for money; for sexual satisfaction; etc. without love?
    Are you able to detach your emotions and just have physical enjoyment?

    Or are you the type that must have love before sex?

    Don't be shy to vote. ;)
     
  2. hahha yes prolly ill do it for fun.. but i rather do it with love :p
     
  3. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Okie.. vote plz -bigsmile
     
  4. happy? -lol-lol-lol
     
  5. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    -noclue Liar! :p
     
  6. amagod!! babyrain is a monk -lol
     
  7. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Lol, this is a public poll my dear.
     
  8. dont spoil the fun ar :( meanie!
     
  9. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Aww, ok ... since ur the one and only who replied to my thread; we shall keep this a seekrit 'kay?
     
  10. owkeee! :D thnx ar... so sweet ar ;P

    but do you prefer with sex? :p to get get back on topic -_-b
     
  11. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Me? I do it for fun... coz I am the Evil twin... -devil
     
  12. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    The way I look at it:

    Sex is a series of physical acts that you perform with someone else for your physical enjoyment. Some find it a taboo; others find it a sin.
    Love is purely based on your emotions; ie state of mind; ie mental rather than physical.

    It's always ideal to have both love and sex; but some people are able to have sex without love either because they are able to detach themselves emotionally from the acts or they do it for money, etc.

    Some people are able to have love without sex (but I believe eventually if you love a person; you'd feel like making love to the person. If you don't then I think there's sth wrong with you... ) :p

    Anyway, I am quite open-minded on this subject. If a person can have sex without love; I don't find it wrong as long as they don't hurt each other's feelings or a third party's feelings.

    As for myself, I probably go for both love and sex hahaha.
     
  13. ow... evil twin of.....
     
  14. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Oh well, Hiake and I are the Evil twins... -devil
    Aww she's gone hiking.. Miss her >.<
     
  15. where did you copy-pasted this? >.< -pirate
     
  16. i miss the convos on msn to with here -lol :(
     
  17. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    -ann Excuse me, i wrote it myself.
     
  18. ur way to smart lololololol
     
  19. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    sounds too typical to be written!! =P

    lol

    but neway, yes theres always the "ideal"
    too bad it doesn't happen enuff ><
     
  20. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Smart?? -er that's not even a mathematical or science formulae...
    Too typical what do you mean? I said I wrote it myself; i don't have any reason to lie if I googled it or sth... and you can google to see if i am lying -doh
    Apparently you haven't taken a look at my real essays... -_-2