Basically there's this cute hong kong girl in my university, she's fobby if that makes any difference. I've seen her around uni loads of times and we've made eye contact plenty of times. But me being an idiot and not knowing anything about girls I use to give her lots of eye contact, but never smiled. I've been lingering and looking from a distance instead of approaching. After watching a lot of youtube dating advice videos I realise what I was doing could make me seem creepy and scare her away. Don't wanna sound big headed or anything but I'm kinda good looking. I always use to catch her looking at me, which is why I then started looking at her a lot aswell. But now when I see her it's like she's making an effort not to look at me, maybe she's embarassed I caught her looking so many times or maybe she's not interested. I REALLY wanna approach her, there is a chance she finds me attractive and is just waiting for me to approach her, but there is also the chance that she now thinks I'm a creep and is scared of me. I'm obviously gonna stop staring and next time I see her I'll try to give her a smile. What should I do? Still go approach her?? Advice pleasseee, thanks
If you really want to talk to her then just do it, whats the worst she says no? Then at least you tried and wont constantly for the rest of your life be wondering what if you did make the move and talk to her.
@^ Going to talk to her is the hardest part cuz u dont know what to expect. and might feel embarassed if it dont work out even though its just one person. Actually if it dont work out, it'll make the next girl that much harder to talk to. Than again if you dont talk to her then you lose your chance to find out, and youll regret never finding out.
The other option is to go talk to girls, get rejected. Rejection is part of the game, and makes talking to the next girl easier. Well that's how I feel lol
start by asking her for notes or ask for help on something you "don't understand". Or just man up and talk to her if you're really interested. Even if she thinks you're a creep, at least you will know rather than staring at her and getting booked looking at her all the time. Or just ask someone else "wing man" to talk to her for you. easy
^ Yeah lol would just get creepier if you keep on staring.......and would just be weird when u move on. If you know a friends of hers then yeah talk to them and then talk to her. The shit human nature goes through lol
if you are talking about girls, stop being a boy. man up and go talk to her ... take the 50/50 chance of getting rejected
Heard of "Talk is cheap"? Yep, money is not part of the equation. It's priceless to TALK all you want. Just don't say weird stuffs that people don't like. LOL Worst case scenario is the rejection. Don't worry, there're plenty of fishes out there. Best case scenario is (real?) happiness. LOL
watch this video http://youtu.be/FOyRWuklsiQ hopefully it will give you the answer you are looking for
it was so awkward to talk to a girl that you had seem many time. I know everyone suggest to talk to her but it is hard for a shy person. lol You have to go know her friends. That why you have to be friends with your classmate, friendly with people around you. BTW ryohazuki do you speak cantonese?
LOL, my honest advice? Spend HK$ 300 and go to one of those pink lighted parlors on Portland and Agyle; you'll feel immediate relief and get over your obsession (and if you're not in HK then find some place similar near you). Then get back to studying and stop wasting your time and the money your parent's spent to get you that education. Hint: I'm a parent with one kid in college and another about to start <sob>... As far as I'm concerned, romance is the least of the distractions that a kid needs when we're paying for an education.
eh... economy's pretty bad... ur pretty much scrapin' the barrel at $300 hkd... the kid's gonna be haunted forever lol... not... that i know what ur talkin' bout...
Er... Me neither, I... er, ...read about it, ...on the internet! Yeah, that's it, I read it about it on the internet! :Talktohand:
