Should i interfere with a relationship??

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by mushoo92, Aug 17, 2008.

  1. mushoo92

    mushoo92 Member

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    Hi
     
    #1 mushoo92, Aug 17, 2008
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  2. if he really would dump that girl for you, would that make you feel save that he wouldnt do the same with you?
    and would you feel good if you ruined there relationship?
     
  3. mushoo92

    mushoo92 Member

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    well i wouldnt feel that safe. but i also wouldnt feel bad for their relationship though
     
  4. sars4tw

    sars4tw Well-Known Member

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    DO IT! RUIN IT! MAKE PEOPLE CRY! WATCH HER SUFFER! LOL! BEST SCENE EVER EH!?
    Just kidding. But seriously. Think about it being in her shoes. Would you like it if someone came along and took your bf off your hands? Even if you don't know the girl. Won't you feel bad at all? Like what Resentless said. If the guy dumps the girl for you, he could do the same to you in the future if he meets someone better than you.
     
  5. just remember, what goes around comes around.

    do you think the pain after being cheated on worth the few months of happiness with him?

    that you said that already shows that you would go for him if you had the chance, why ask here? you already know what you want
     
  6. mushoo92

    mushoo92 Member

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    hmm i guess thanks guys/girls i guess ill just think to myself hoping that they would break it by themselves one day. =)
     
  7. well honestly sometimes the relationship does work out.... you need to talk to babs lol
     
  8. anti

    anti Well-Known Member

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    don't interfere with a their relationship u only just end up hurtin the gurl that he with and they been together for mostly a year u can say it a long time bein together and their feelin for each othet are strong if not they be broken up within a few months the only thing u can do is wait for them to break up and then you can step in but the only thing is that how long can u wait for that to happen ?? to be honest you might as well just find another guy and move on there no point in waitin for him it just wastin ur time and i agreew with what Resentless said *if he really would dump that girl for you, would that make you feel save that he wouldnt do the same with you?*
     
  9. kc123

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    It digusts me that you would even think about ruining another couples relationship. Im guessing youve experience something of that magnitude before..

    Anyways as others has stated its a waste of time. And I doubt he would leave his relationship of 1 year for you over occasional flirts (unless you're far more superior then his current girlfriend in every aspect).
     
  10. jklee369

    jklee369 Well-Known Member

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    End of the day there is no right and wrong answers when love is involved.
    I say your should do what you think is the right thing, dont worry what other say, saying that you might be ruining a relationship, at the end of the day is just u and the other guy.
    However, if this is the route you choose you just have to be wary about the integrity of this guy as there isnt anything stopping him doing the same thing to you when he meet a better girl.
     
  11. lovinglyxx

    lovinglyxx Well-Known Member

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    tbh if i was his gf i would be pissed at you, because in her eyes she sees you as the girl who snatched away her bf... and that guy is probably playing you, try get out of it! he'll probably end up hurting you too :( stay away from him~~
     
  12. ProjectD

    ProjectD VIP yay :]

    wouldnt recommend it, just stay close with that guy and when they do break up... maybe the spark willl come back and you guys can be together i guess =/
     
  13. Azerz

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    i'd say no unless u are sure that the guy doesnt like his current gf but from the sounds of it if u go in right now u'll just cause lots of problems than u are in now
     
  14. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    like most ppl said... dont do it...
    if the guy liked u he wouldnt be dating the other girl in the first place...
    u had ur chance but u let it slip away... why make a move now?

    dont steal someones bf...(N) thats so not done...
     
  15. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol , yer dont be 第三者,
    lol
     
  16. uryu

    uryu Well-Known Member

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    home wrecker ftw do it, and be labeled as a home wrecker, thats like autoGG to ur friends/family who knows u
     
  17. babs

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    HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

    yes i broke up a relationship and i ended up marrying the guy! dont force it. if it happens it happens.
     
  18. MunMun

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    well to be honest would you like it if someone stole your bf off you?.... but then again if it was that easy to steal then the guy probably doesnt like the girl as much as he says he does.
    if it was me i wouldnt ruin a relationship just so i could have one with the guy. being friends with the guy is better than being nothing at all
     
  19. gawain187

    gawain187 Well-Known Member

    He sounds like a playboy, Ditch him. He isnt reliable.
     
  20. The Lone Moon

    The Lone Moon Well-Known Member

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    Highly against it. It makes you less valuable if you do that, cuz seriously if that guy actually likes you, he woulda broken it off with his YEAR LONG gf already.