Should i or not?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by m1star, Mar 20, 2009.

  1. m1star

    m1star New Member

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    So i really like this guy... i like him ever since 2006, but the stupid part is that we never met eachother. Is it just a lame online love blind? Him and i talked on the phone a lot of times and he lives in MN. I live in WI . Is it bad to like someone long distance? I want to let him know i like him but he like other girl tooo, but now that that other girl is taken he is single! What should i do? Should i ask him out? Or slowly play my game?
     
    #1 m1star, Mar 20, 2009
  2. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

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    check out the long distance relationship thread
     
    #2 kdotc, Mar 21, 2009
  3. perfectguy4you

    perfectguy4you Well-Known Member

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    You should physically meet each other before making any further decisions. Ask him out first before deciding whether you truly want to date him or not. Sometimes one cannot express its feeling fully online so it is always good to physically see each other and talk to each other physically before doing anything else.
     
    #3 perfectguy4you, Mar 23, 2009
  4. DKNY

    DKNY Well-Known Member

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    yeah, better see the person first
     
    #4 DKNY, Mar 23, 2009
  5. HeAvEnzgmaIl

    HeAvEnzgmaIl Well-Known Member

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    meet mr nice first ^_^ trust me internet is quite decieving! BUT not always
     
    #5 HeAvEnzgmaIl, Mar 23, 2009
  6. mr_evolution

    mr_evolution ( • )( •ԅ(ˆ⌣ˆԅ)

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    Having a relationship w/o seeing each other is always hard/risky.

    Try meeting up sometime, preferably somewhere open and public
     
    #6 mr_evolution, Mar 23, 2009
  7. [mJ9]

    [mJ9] Well-Known Member

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    yeah meet him first and see if your feelings are still the same for him.If it is so,you tell him
     
    #7 [mJ9], Mar 23, 2009
  8. zeta

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    it will never be true love if u havent met before..
     
    #8 zeta, Mar 23, 2009
  9. ao_xxx

    ao_xxx Well-Known Member

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    Have to meet him in real life first to really know that he is the person you think he is. you'll be surprised how different a person can be in real life than online
     
    #9 ao_xxx, Mar 25, 2009
  10. fearless_fx

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    Has the guy atleast sent some legit looking photos of himself?

    if not for all you know he could be a 60 year old fat dude

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    Often people are alot different in real life then they are on the internet... even if he looks exactly like you think he does, his personality could be completely different.
     
    #10 fearless_fx, Mar 25, 2009
  11. ~*Dawn*~

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    i think u really need to meet the person first before u rush into anything... the guy u know over the phone and internet is very limited... the rest of him is made up by ur fantasy... just find a way to get to know him in person first :p
     
    #11 ~*Dawn*~, Apr 4, 2009
  12. hem

    hem Well-Known Member

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    I agree with most post. that you should get to know him first. and long distance is not that easy. Need alot of effort and time to keep it. But do take a look at the thread for distance relationship and read more there.
     
    #12 hem, Apr 12, 2009