So confused

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by liizxoxo, Oct 14, 2008.

  1. liizxoxo

    liizxoxo New Member

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    so i met this guy in august while volunteering at a hospital, but he was in another unit. but after he found out we(my partner and i) would always be in a certain spot he would just keep coming over to visit my unit instead of just doing his work in his own (but mind you, hospital volunteering is really boring) and we would just talk about anything for the entire month and afterwards he added me on msn and we would talk alot too.

    and then he asked me if i wanted to in his exact words "go get a bubble tea with him" and so i did. we sat in the little bbt place for like over 3 hours talking again (casual conversation about anything) and then he paid for my bbt even though it seemed quite casual to me, and not really a date...and we ended up chilling in a nearby park and after walking over half an hour to another park where we just hung around on swings and stuff and just fooled around, just laughing and joking, nothing intimate...

    i was just wondering whether he's just being friendly or he actually likes me...
    cause then during our first conversations he would always bring up stuff like "oh, i like my school cause its got an all girls school a block away so thats good" and things like that...so im not sure whether he sees me as just a friend or something more...
     
  2. ^some guys like to brag about stuff or atleast to let you know he is into girls xD or trying to make you jealous
    but paying doesnt mean much tbh, i also paid for cinema and food for a girl.. but that was just out of kindness and not intention besides that..
    but i guess if he really likes you, you will find out sooner or later, but whats the prob here? you like the guy or not?
     
  3. mr_evolution

    mr_evolution ( • )( •ԅ(ˆ⌣ˆԅ)

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    My bet is yes, but I guess you'll find out soon
     
  4. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    I think she likes him...
    otherwise she won't think that much.
    but hey... you paid food for me... but i paid the tip :p
     
  5. teresarh

    teresarh Well-Known Member

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    i reckon...he likes you. and you will find out soon.
     
  6. stfu before i kill you the next time i see you! :p
     
  7. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    you cant.. coz you love me too much :D
     
  8. never heared of killing someone cause you love em to much? if you cant get em.. nobody can!!!
    i watch to much japanese movies lately you know :shifty:
     
  9. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    hahahahahahaha but I'm still there for you ;)
    except when I'm with him xD
    and yeahhh... I love you too :D
     
  10. ooww you wont be there for me the next time i see you :shifty: -evil
     
  11. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    better be killed by a lover... than by an enemy :D
     
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  13. ^lmfao.... wow you two ....

    anyways... yeah guys just like to make comments like that... like they make themselves seem more wanted i guess? like they tell you things that clue at them being socially accepted by a majority of people and not some loser....

    he could be into you, but you will just have to wait and find out...