So confused

Hmm... I was just wondering what people would do in this situation:

You like a guy... but you don't think he likes you back.
Your friend also like this same guy... and you think he likes her.

Do you go for him or do you let your good friend have him?<_<

 

well if he doesn't like you .. and the two of them like each other ..
why even bother trying to go after him if you know he likes your friend?

 

i'd let the guy know how i feel (maybe not by telling him directly... like really obvious hints) n then let him make the decision... that way i can tell myself i did everything i could n i have nothing to regret in the future...

 

Think doesn't mean its real, what happens if he thinks differently and its opposite to what you're thinking???
Give it a try, try is better than no try.

 

i will let my friend have the guy,both love each other...i won't tell him either because it will hurt my friend

 

maybe first of all talk to your friend? if she's a real friend to you, i think she wants you to tell her... so that the guy won't hurt any of you when he "decides" who he's going with...

 

When you're confused, then it's best to stay out. Unless this is a guy you can't live without for sure, I wouldn't bother trying. Just wait and observe before making a move. If you do something stupid, it can make your friendship awkward or totally destroys it. So yeah ..

 

Id keep my mouth shut if i think he doesnt like me... most of the time u can sorta "feel" it anyway....
if u tell the guy n ur best friend n the guy end up hooking up with eachother anyway its gonna be hella humiliating n awkward (at least its how id feel)

if the guy likes u he wouldnt hook up with ur friend anyway so.....

 

support your friend. =]

 

gotta talk to the guy lol

 

wish ur friend good luck.. you know when someone likes you.. if the one likes ur friend.. and you tell him that u like him.. youll just make it akward for both

 

play ball, you wont get the damn ball if you don't gun for it

if that's the case, then why don't you sit on the bench instead?


my point: if you want the relationship, make it happen.

 

^ lol was that necessary dann
i was like

 

let the friend have the guy yehh

 

gah >_< Mixed answers... I think I'll just wait and see what happens... maybe that will help me make my final decision

 

^ Time goes by, chances are getting slimmer, just do it already xP

 

If you really have something for this person go for it. Get to kno the guy if you dont already, hint some things like ask what types of girls are you into and so on and see if he hints nething back. Thats just my opinion, what do i kno

 

keeping in mind you wouldn't want to make yourself look like your tooo available.

just get to know him more first imo.

 

you both should bring out your feelings to the guy and see which one he like, equal chance for both of you. And you may never know liking a guy doesnt mean hes the one, so dont need to put too much hope in appearance or first sight, take some time and learn more about him first.

 

I am sticking to my earlier comment. If it was just between you and a guy (without a third person involves) then I would say, go for it and make it happen like everyone else said above but there is and that's your friend too. AGain, just observe and do what's right when the timing feels right.