Some difficult advice. I’ve realized something about myself and about women. And I see it all around me. And I suddenly came to a realization. When you look at the world around you. When you look at the men around you. You see that all these men buy these things, these clothes, these houses…these things to show off to a girl in the hopes of attracting the girl. And you know..I used to be like that too, man. But one day something just snapped. Why in the fuk am I doing this? If a bytch don’t like me for who I am..I could give a fuk. I’m not gonna pull a charade and buy all this shyt. If she don’t like me for who I am, then fuk it. I think a lot of us have the wrong mentality with women. You hear questions like…what’s the best ____ to buy to get a girl attracted..blah blah blah. What’s the best this..What’s the best that…blah blah blah. And you know something.. We have it all wrong. We aren’t here to make a show for the lady. No. You are a man. And you are you. And you don’t have to buy all this shyt to show off to these women. You don't have to come up with all these fake azz lines that you know ain't you. Because you know what? If she don’t like you for who you are..then you don’t want to be with a girl like that. I think I realized something. If I make hella money and I’m loaded on cash, I’ll never flaunt it. I’ll make her think that I’m financially secure..but I won’t give her the impression that I’m loaded. Because you know what? If you find a girl that doesn’t want you because of the things you have, or the car you drive, or the clothes you wear…. And you find a girl that likes you for being you…. Then it’s impossible to fuk up. Stop trying to act like something you aren’t. You know more shyt than anybody out here..but you’re wasting your goddamn time sitting here and reading these posts. Stick to the basics and get the fuk out there and make a move, goddamnit. And for godsakes, just be yourself. Yeah, you hear all these dumb fuks that say,…oh but being yourself ain’t gonna do shyt if you’re still a chump.. And I say.. No. You already know the basics. And the basics is all you need. Once you know the basics, then you just gotta add your own style, your own flare..and be yourself. Because if a girl doesn’t like you for who you are, she never was meant for you. -By a friend named KillaPetehog
ur friend just recently get screwed over by some girl? u make it sound like girls are money loving loveless souls. maybe ur friend should stop attracting himself to girls like that and realize that nice girls are out there. we're not all like this u know. the good ones are fully capable of spoiling ourselves. but i'm telling u right now, i bust my ass to get the things i want in life. i expect my other half to not be useless either. i don't think i'm being money obsessed. i just don't deal with guys that are like, "w/e. i don't need to work hard. live day by day is good" no way.
My friend is actually very successful with women. Solid advice. The message you got from his advice was a lot different than what I got. To me it basically says: To stop trying to impress girls with money, cars, and materialism. If you show a girl you have money, you will never satisfy her. Because what she wants isn't your money, but its your personality. Stop working on impressing her with money and start embracing your personality. Personality is harder to change than the balance in your bank.
well vintage, here's the thing then...if he's successful and doesnt seem to have a prob with getting the girl, he has an issue himself. not the girl. A. he goes for the model looking money hunger girl who is not wanting anything more then just a fling. B. he has a bad personality. Cause like u said, sooner or later, even money isn't gonna be enuf for the girl to stick around if the guy is just not right.
u still need to put in the effort to initially impress them somehow it's more of the thought and actions, rather than what u give them (apart from dawn of cos )
vintage = boy........i thought you were a gurl....whoops....-sweat.... and yeh i agree with you...that your future partner should like you for who you are not for the things you have thats all ideal in the old times and fairy tales but in reality i dun think it happens plus most people base their opinions on appearances its just nature to do it...we say we dun judge by their looks but in actual fact we all do it and and "My friend is actually very successful with women. Hes slept with far more girls than I have" ya sure that aint just him showing off...male ego...
that's not successful with women... that putting himself at higher risk of STI... >.< anyway back to the topic... like ur fds said if u show off ur wealth to get the girls' attention then all u'll get is the $$ sucking ones... n some men mite b ok with that... it satisfies their ego to show they can buy as many girls they like... it's like a game to them... but if ur looking for true love then flashing ur Amex Platinum will probably make her think ur a jerk... but sometimes when u fall in love with someone u'd wanna buy him/her with gifts they like... it's not abt showing off anymore... it's a gift from the bottom of ur heart... n that's different... if i was in love with a guy i'd like to surprise him n buy him stuff
I know a guy in High School who saved up $500 to buy a nice ring for a girl. Then the girl dumped him a week later. Ouch.
ppl who are not being real are just bound to fail... no matter if its in love, career or whatever....if its not u then its not u... pretending wont help...u will end up being unhappy because u will be acting constantly
she might've wanted to break up with ur fd for a long time... just coz he gave her a ring it doesn't mean she have to extend the period longer... or she mite've only wanted the ring n it was ur fd's bad luck... being stingy to a girl doesn't garantee a good relationship... u just gotta b smart abt who u choose to b with...
who actually ever said that girls want guys to impress them with all that stuff? it's the GUYS who think that in the first place maybe some girls do like it and are impressed when guys flaunt their wealth and stuff but nobody ever said that a girl wouldn't like a guy if he wasn't loaded please don't categorize all girls into being materialistic, money loving, golddiggers
