Re: stay as friends or take a chance and ask your best friend out (remember your oppo I wouldn't risk it. I have mostly guy friends, but I see them as nothing but brothers. Most of them have not displayed interest in me and treat me like their sister. My best guy friend and I have practically grown up together, so sleeping with him would almost be like incest!
Well most of my friends are boys, anyway even if my best friend is a girl, i reckon it wouldn't feel right to go out with them, i like just tell them everything and it's a different relationship than love.
Re: stay as friends or take a chance and ask your best friend out (remember your oppo Chance it... best friends are overrated. -bash to my ex-best friend... -down
Re: stay as friends or take a chance and ask your best friend out (remember your oppo This thread is almost like my earlier thread. Anyways, here's what I had to say: So the replies from the guys in this thread has basically proven my point!
Re: stay as friends or take a chance and ask your best friend out (remember your oppo from personal experience i have found that it's best not to ask her out sadly the two times i have tried my feelings were one sided and i was left feeling emo for a while
Re: stay as friends or take a chance and ask your best friend out (remember your oppo Most girls are under the philosophy that once you are friends with a guy, the line won't be crossed into anything deeper than that, and a lot of guys have trouble understanding that!
Re: stay as friends or take a chance and ask your best friend out (remember your oppo Absolutely right. Guys have this misconception that by being a girl's friend they can then make the transition to a deeper relationship. I have said this to many guys before even in this forum, once you are in the stuck in the friend zone its almost impossible to get out. It also has to do with attraction and chemistry. If the girl never felt any attraction to the guy from the beginning then the guy has no chance. But heres the thing, attraction can be created, the problem is that most guys ruin this attraction by not being desirable. So what are these undesirable traits. things like being too clingy, unassertive, too caring, giving the girl too much attention, too emotional and being too available. Your goal is to be a girls lover and not her friend. For best friends to make this transition is not a good idea, especially for the guy to make the move. If the girl was attracted to her guy best friend then she will show it. Some guys cant read the signs or they interpret the signs in a wrong way. For the guys, make your move early and build attraction early by letting the girl know that you are attracted to her by your actions. Dont waste your time developing a strong friendship if your goal is to eventually sleep with her.
Re: stay as friends or take a chance and ask your best friend out (remember your oppo Sooo true! -surr
watch some episodes of Seinfeld. you'll know what to do from there on. Personally, don't lose what you have together now unless you can be friends if there is a breakup(hence the Seinfeld eps.)
if you can see yourself with them for a long period of time and the relationship will last long, then go for it. if not, don't risk ruining what you already have
only risk if she/he has given some sort of sign dat dey want a deeper relationship. if dey dun, shuldn't risk it, cuz once uve asked, there's a awkward thing bewteen u n u won't be the same ever.
i rkn it shuldn b risked .. it'll only ruin da friendship, n make things complicated within da group of frens
Personally i took the change and it turn out horrible. This is definally the most wrong think i did. Swear will never make the same mistake. I think i will regret as long as i live.
