So its been like about 2-3 mths since i last saw her. I blocked her off my msn and I stopped going on facebook cause I'm afraid I might see news about her on the minifeed when I log in. I'm doing summer school and so is she but I'm taking something else and everytime I show up for school, when I see any girl that resembles her I try to avoid them or not look at them. When I'm at school I'm afraid I might run into her and it would be very awkward. I don't really feel like talking to her anymore, and maybe in september if I have a class with her I'll switch sections. She has caused me nothing but pain. I got slapped with fees from school, my grades suffered, and at the moment I am still kind of feeling depressed. I tried going out with friends and stuff but that only provided temporary relief, I know finding another girl might help me forget about her, but I don't really feel good about using someone as rebound just so I can forget about some girl. I'd end up hurting her and I would feel bad and plus I don't wanna be in a relationship if I can't give 100% to the girl. I don't drink but I even went out drinking with friends to try to get myself drunk just so I can forget about her but then later on I figured I was being stupid and she isn't worth it so I stopped. Don't really know what else to do. I've gotten over a girl before and that took alot less time, I dunno why I still can't get over this girl. Is it suppose to take this long to get over someone? Can anyone else recommend any other solutions?
Forget girls, after what happened tonight... I aint' gonna treat girls nice EVER again. They disappoint me BIG time.
Hey Wolf, Feel sorry to hear that ur not doing too well... Getting over somebody u really loved/liked can be very hard yes.... And i guess the only thing u can do is accept the fact that ur over her and deal with the pain right now... allow urself to feel bad... and even cry... its ok.... what really helped when i am sad...is talking about it with my friends... talk and complain.... a lot... ur friends can help and support u a lot...just by listening to ur feelings and stories... even though u feel depressed right now... eventually u will come to realize that things are just not always working out the way u want them to.... I've had a broken heart too...took me about 2 years to get over it...and ur right...i dated a guy while i still wasnt over my ex...and imo its not gonna help... before u start seeing other girls u should get over ur ex first or else im afraid it wont work out anyway.... Goodluck!! -flow erm...ok...? Guys and girls treat eachother bad all the time...hmmm...maybe u just had bad luck... I mean...if i go out with a guy and he treats me bad...it doesnt mean i should never be nice to guys again right?
sorry to hear that...keeping yourself busy with activities will help. i usually go to the gym and exercise when i am down, run a couple miles or some sort of exercise and if you can't get yourself out of the house, get a work out buddy!
I've been working out non-stop. here's my problem. I live in a small town, I am an anime fan. I can't help it what my hobbies are, I love anime and comics. Even though I seem too old for it, but that still counts as a hobby. However, people around here DO NOT think that. They think it's for kids and that I'm too old for stuff like anime and comics. They think Anime as Cartoon Porn and nothing else, they do not appreciate the art and the storylines and such. They are narrow minded. And I've tried to hide it sometimes, but others that knew me started talking shit about my hobbies to anime which they will tell others that I like cartoon porno. WTF! >_< I'm pissed, I was pissed earlier as well. I feel like fighting somebody because of their arrogance but I will not sink into their level of retartation.
erm...34th? u counted? maybe u just pick out the wrong ones... instead of the hot and popular ones...try the normal looking, innocent ones...? =/ & madeinchina...maybe u should MOVE?
lol you cant just work out lots and expect your problems to disapear... hiding from shit does nothing, unless its something that you know will go away in time... ie. you gf is moving in a month and u just gotta forget about her until then, and no worries. but if ur still going to be seeing her lots, then deal with your shit, talk to her about how u feel about the break up, maybe she is feeling the same way. doesn't mean you're going to get back together, but its always nice to get things out in the open.
I already do that on a regular basis lol. 3 x weightlifting and 2-3 x cardio a week. Thinking about taking up some martial arts like tkd or maybe boxing. That stuff defintely helped me forget about my first crush but right now I'm kind of broke and there isn't any good places in my area and I don't wanna travel 1hr for lessons lol. I'm just kind of doing stuff right now to improve myself. working out, taking piano lessons (hopfully will be able to play something I want in a few mths from now), reading books, etc.. Just trying to move on with my life.
Hot and Popular ones don't even bother look at me when they talk to me. Normal ones tend to look for guys talller than them, I'm pretty short. The ugly ones even cursed me out. I live in a very small town where everybody knows everybody, so everything I did back in the old days counted as my rep and I guess my rep ain't that good so no matter how hard I've tried, it was pointless.
the town cant be that small if u have dated 34 different chicks... damn.. all of your ex's must know each other lol
so like i said...move...to a bigger city...where u can start over....and do whatever u like without having a bad rep...?
well...if it really bugs u, maybe its time to do it instead of just thinking.... theres a solution to every problem...and if u wanna solve urs..just do what u gotta do
I will move out of here, I'm tired of this place and the people around me. I will no longer be a part of this sorry place.
