Question for the guys: Do you generally like giving your gf phone calls? Question for the girls: Do you generally like receiving phone calls? I'm a girl, and I generally like receiving calls. I like it when my bf just calls me outta the blue and tells me how he's doing or asking how I'm doing. I think it's sweet...but I don't like it when they go overboard and call you like every 10-15 min. just to check up on you cause that kinda makes them seem kinda clingy. 1 call a day is good enough for me. What do you guys think?
I hate talking on the phone. I guess that's one of the problems that I've had with my past relationships. I find that I don't really have the time to sit & talk about nothing on the phone with my significant other. If I had a boyfriend, I'd call him up at most 2x a week just to check in with him to see how he's doing (provided that I don't see him that week). I do like to keep those conversations short though. Of course, if somebody is calling me to make plans, then I'd be happy to get on the phone...but once the plans are made, I have to hang up. When in a relationship, I like to have my personal space. I don't like having a boyfriend who would call me up every waking hour and ask me where I'm at, what I'm doing, where I'm going etc. When I had a boyfriend, the most I'd see him was 2-3 days a week. Any more than that is just too much for me. I honestly don't understand why some people feel the need to spend every waking and sleeping moment together. My friend, whom I haven't heard from in 3 weeks already, lives with her man. When she's at work, she's chatting with him online. When she gets off of work, she walks over to her man's office & waits for him to get out. And then they train it home together, eat together, watch tv together, go to sleep together, etc. If I were in her man's shoes, I would've gone mad already. I can't be smothered like that.
I used to talk to my bf like at least once everyday at first. Later, it got to 2-3times a week. It's just that as the relationship grew, that need to be super needy and clingy for each other wasn't as much. I think it's just what happens for the first 6 months in a relationship where u can't get enough of each other. "falling head over heels" Then things eventually turn into habits. That's what I think. But everyone's got different personalities.
Me and my gf, we kinda share the call load. She calls me sumtimes, i call her sumtimes. Some girls think their guys don't care about them if they don't call them and want to break up with them. are all girls like dat?
meh..watever floats ur both..some into it..some not..for me..either way is good..not particular on any one thing...
omg, this topic came at just the right time for me! So today as we (me and my boyfriend) were talking on the phone..there were some really awkward moments of silence. I didnt know what to say to him anymore, and he told me "you don't talk to me anymore, I would always need to start the convo" but seriously and honestly, I dont know what to say to him! I'm sure that my feelings for him are still there, but communication is very important in a relationship. We've talked a lot before but nowadays, I just dont know what to say to him anymore... Can anyone give me some advice? Thanks to all who posts to help me. :(
Just how often do you talk on the phone with your boyfriend? If you see each other every day and also talk to each other every day, then it'd be difficult to have new things to say after the initial getting to know each other stage. For me, when I'm in a relationship, I rarely talk to my significant other, mostly because I don't have time. But when we do talk, we have tons of things to say to each other, just about the interesting things that we've seen, what's been stressing us out, etc. Occasionally, we'll run out of things to say to each other, but I don't go stressing out over it. It takes two to have a conversation. If he doesn't give you any talking points, he can't expect you to say things if he called you up.
