Hi.. im pretty new at PA but i decided giving it a try and posting up one of my problems. At school there is this girl who likes me, i like her too, we like each other well i guess alot. But my best friend is also friends with her, sometimes they seem to really get along well with each other, she seems like she has WAY more things in common with my best friend and it seems like they are right for each other. I have approached my best friend about this and he assured me that he likes her as a sister and thats it. She also said the same thing, but for some reason i cant seem to get it out of my head because they seem so right for each other even though they both keep saying that they dont like each other in THAT way.. if you were in my situation what would you do? I really need help cuz this is killing me inside:( thanks for reading!
What to do next? Ask the girl out! (Don't know why you haven't already) you're over analyzing! The more you do that, the more you'll put yourself in a hole. Ask yourself, would an awesome boyfriend be afraid of boys his girlfriend meets? In case you haven't figured that part out, NO. Girls like a confident guy, not one that second guesses themselves at every turn. Why don't you trust the girl that you like or your bestfriend anyhoo? they already told you there's nothing between them.
^ yes, honestly, I don't even see why this question was brought up. You both like each other. So I don't see where the problem is? If you don't trust the girl, at least trust your best friend. If he says he only sees her as a sister, then take his word for it. My question is, does your best friend KNOW that you like this girl? You said that you spoke to him about the issue, but what exactly did you ask/tell him? Anyway, I think your main problem is that you lack confidence. Just because 2 people share a lot of things in common, it doesn't mean that they'd make a good couple. My guy friends and I share a lot of things in common and we get along, but do we have any deep feelings towards each other? Not at all, other than friendship. So, stop with the insecurities and ask the girl out already!
YOU! kenji3819! STOP SPAMMING!!! -bash If you are just posting to be able to access the downloads, you WILL get banned!!!
kenji is mi friend plz ignore him if he sends to many posts in 1 section of the fourm, he's only new to this plz give him a chance much preciated !
I'm not trying to pick on your friend or anything, but if he's new, he should read the forum RULES before posting. http://Dramasian.com/showthread.php?t=984 If an admin/mod caught your friend's posts, they would have automatically banned him. Just letting you guys know so you won't do it again next time. This forum is actually one of the least strict forums I know of.
bloody hell if u wanna increase ur counts of posts dont be such an annoying arse try posting in different section and post something that uses ur brain duh-dead
lol yo he reminds me of that one guy... like sup yea uh huh... i know.. Your friend should def. edit all of his posts with comments relating to the thread if he's trying to redeem himself...
kenji3819 since ur new this is a friendly warning if u continue u will be banned your posts hve been removed ...
Anyway let's get back to the topic. So if i was in ur position, i'll ask the girl out init. And just see how it goes
Just go for it, if you like her that much, you aint got nothing to loose really. Ask her out and it may turn out wonderful, dont ask her and youll end up wondering what if all the time. Bite the bullet!!
oh man, the issue just totally escaladed.. regarding to the whole thing about if my best friend knows that i like the girl.. well he does, in fact he was like the first person i turned to ask for help. Today for some reason the girl totally avoided me, it was really weird, earlier i asked if she wanted to walk together after school and she was like "Definitely!". She was so excited and energetic about it too, but after school i waited for her in the front for a while and there was like no sight of her, losing all hope i ended up walking with one of my friends. On the way to my house, me and her routes like cross each other, when i saw the street she usually walks on i thought of her, the next thing you know i turn to the left hoping to see her and I DO, except that she was walking with my best friend home alone, and she was basically trying to hide herself behind him when she saw me, i was like heartbroken but i just.. walked away casually trying to totally ignore what i saw, when i got home i wanted to ask her a question about this project that we are suppose to be doing but so far she hasnt been on at all. SHES TOTALLY AVOIDING ME NOW. Now you have read it, what are your suggestions on what i should do in this situation remembering the fact that i have to face BOTH of them tomorrow:( Thanks for reading!
I think you should just let nature take its course. What's yours will be yours. The important thing is not to scare her off, into someone else. I'm sure she'll pick the one that pressures her the least and is most comfortable with. Then, again, this is just me. Hope it helps.
I think the situation is very typical. I like a girl, my best friend knows that. He seems to get along well with the girl i like. So i assume maybe they're 2 involved in something special..??? That means that u're jealous, so it's alright and very natural. So let's just analyse this situation in another perspective. That girl is a little shy and can't seem to guess what's goin' on with me (because i haven't made any move???). So she decided to get along with my best friend in order to get info (intel...) from him about me. Or she's trying to catch my attention by getting close to my best friends to see whether i'll get jealous or not. In other sides, my best friend feels that in that position he can help me get close to the girl, so he plays on.. (as my best friend, he'll definitely help me i guess..). And i just misunderstand the whole situation.... See... all u have to do is ask her out, tell her your true feeling. Don't get hesitate and do nothing until it's too late. She will not be there forever...
The problem here is...your friend may have told her and the fact that she has snobbed you, could mean that she knows and isn't really interested. =/ I guess you could believe this or clear up some issues with your best fd.
