Why is it that everyone seems 2 fall into traps of thinking a close friend of yours - can actualy b a one that you would spend the rest of your life with? I liked this girl for some time now, whom I just thought me n her could b together only...But recently- with me m8s - girls, that i probs @ college or somethin - has got me 2 think twice..."I like this friend ,mayb we can b together"...I keep telling myself it is wrong cos i am in love with another girl already...But this friend i know...apart from looks / personality - which i rate is good...something stands out which has had some effect on me...have i neglected the other girl to wana go for me m8 insted? - jst cos i dnt rely hav any contact with the other girl- n never asked her out- lives 2 far? pls share some experiences ...any1
Go for it and if it doesn't work out and u want to keep the friendship you NEED to have a mature talk/breakup if u wanna stay being friends. Or, u can just live with the possibility that it could have been something good but never happened so think about which you wanna live with. As for me, I've never gone out with my best friends and to make sure of it they are now my god-sisters. It's just this thing I have where I don't go out with friends sisters or best friends, iono where i got it from.
all i can say is good luck with that right now i still havent into that experience and hope i will not
What p3ps1c0la said, go for it. There is nothing better then going out with someone that is your friend already. I can't tell you how many times I pick up some chick at a bar, while she was good looking but had no personality when I talked to her more the next morning
