Too much Pride?

Discussion in 'The Rant Section' started by goeatc, Jul 21, 2008.

  1. goeatc

    goeatc Well-Known Member

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    Well, I have a friend that i have known for a few years. The only problem I have with him is that his pride keeps him from doing... nearly anything fun. I don't mean we should run around without clothes or anything, but at least stop making up stories to sound smart ! I mean, i understand if you don't wanna DDR in front of girls, but when you're making up a story in every conversation, you've crossed the line ! Also, ripping on friends cause you're feeling insecure is plain immature. Maybe i'm taking this over the cliff, but I just can't stand people that can't laugh at themselves or rip on friends for impressions. I never had the nerves to tell him since we're so "close" to each other.
    I'm sure some of you can relate :shifty: :shifty:
     
  2. kontradictions

    kontradictions Well-Known Member

    Solution: Drive off to the middle of no where. Leave that sum bish there. Drive back. Problem solved.
     
  3. Aoes

    Aoes Well-Known Member

    i scanned that... and saw the words DDR + relate... then :shifty:... no...
     
  4. ProjectD

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    lol i surely cant relate xD
    but my advice is freakin tell him...
     
  5. goeatc

    goeatc Well-Known Member

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    i guess i should, gotta get the right timing right first though ! don't wanna sound bipolar or anything. haha
     
  6. gawain187

    gawain187 Well-Known Member

    If your close then you should be honest and tell it to them straight. Let them know how you feel
     
  7. fearless_fx

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  8. ddr in front of girls... :kekekegay: i do it all the time even though i suck <3 the game, not one of my guys friends would dare to ddr.. i dont have fob enough friends!

    i would know i've met the wrong person if they don't like cute things or try stuff like ddr

    people who don't know how to have fun fail, they are probably shy inside and afraid to let themselves loose and by masking themselves as a person full of pride. Or maybe they grew up in an environment where everything was restricted and they grow up with little self confidence to try new things =() i dunno

    yes goeatc im sure most of us can relate to at least one person like that
     
    #8 hadouken, Jul 22, 2008
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  9. azn822

    azn822 Well-Known Member

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    the closer you are to a friend, the more 'real' you are supposed to be to them. Are you a guy, or a girl?
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    #9 azn822, Jul 22, 2008
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  10. ProjectD

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    from what he wrote above im guessing hes a guy >.<
     
  11. goeatc

    goeatc Well-Known Member

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    i don't think girls would have much trouble playing ddr around other girls. :p
     
  12. azn822

    azn822 Well-Known Member

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    Anyways, I dont think that not being able to make fun of yourself is a part of pride, but a hint of insecurity. Depending on his maturity level, being 'real' may offend him, unless he can think his actions through; in that case, your friendship will be better off. Pending he is immature, and you confront him about his attitude, he may subconciously think "whatever, she's wack anyway." Well, at least this is how things work 'round here.
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    #12 azn822, Jul 23, 2008
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  13. hiyoo

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    lol this guy so violent, but yes tell him to his face since ur so close it doesn't even matter. i do it with my closest friends, straight up in their faces. we're cool like that dunno about u and ur friend
     
  14. auta

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    i get really frustrated at people like those the one mentioned
     
  15. Natsu

    Natsu Well-Known Member

    if it bothers you that much, be honest and tell him otherwise its gonna continue to bother you.
     
  16. renegade

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    If he is a friend.. TELL HIM OFF THERE AND THERE.. if he's simply an acquaintance.. then forget bout it..
     
  17. push him off his imaginary pedestal........ seriously..... tell him he is acting like a total asswipe and he should lighten up
     
  18. Icegirl

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    i thik it is how you are brought up. Some people are naturally shy and just feel they cant let loose. So you just have to encournage them more.
     
  19. jklee369

    jklee369 Well-Known Member

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    If your close then just tell him.

    Here a good quote,

    "A friend when visiting your house ask for a drink, a good friend just helps himself"
     
  20. Vend

    Vend Well-Known Member

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    Slap him... wait 3 seconds... then slap him again from the other side. lolz

    Your "friend" has ADD or HADD... or SHADD. lolz