Turn down a girl

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by robsh, Aug 9, 2010.

  1. robsh

    robsh Well-Known Member

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    ok here's the thing
    i met a girl yesterday
    she was introduced by her uncle whom is just a customer at my company
    her uncle ask me if i have any girlfriends, i was honest and said no
    he want to introduce girls to me and i said when he ask me for my number, so i gave him, the he called me and said he got a nice pretty niece
    (i think is quite eager for us to get along)
    the uncle called me a few times asking me when i'm free and wanting to exchange number, so i kinda agree yesterday morning to meet this girl whom i never seen before
    so met her together with her uncle and aunt last night... i was like wtf!!!
    then they left as i offer to drive her back home
    we had starbuck and chat for an hour or more... and i dont think she is really my type
    during the whole conversation i dint even think of wanting her to have my number
    after chatting till about 1030 pm i called it a day and we walked to my car
    drive and talk
    about midway she ask for my number, i dont really know how to respond so i just gave her my numberquickly

    SO here is the Question:
    If she does call me, what should I tell her?
    If her uncle calls me, what should I tell him?
     
  2. Flames

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    Easy act like you have no idea whats going on and that uncle just gave you a new friend.
     
  3. DKNY

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    easy, buy her a gift(dvd or blu-ray), "he's just not that into you"
     
  4. robsh

    robsh Well-Known Member

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    Shit man she just called me!!
    i was just finishing talking on the phone with my dad while i was at work, about 1030 pm
    and another call just came in and my finger was too fast on the little green button, as i though it was my dad again
    But it was that girl's name i saw on the screen, so i immediately hang up
    so i was thinking, was it good thing or bad thing i just did

    i hope she get my idea of me turning her down as she hasnt call back yet since its 1145 now
     
  5. Flames

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    ...shits gotten serious
     
  6. xzmicozx

    xzmicozx Well-Known Member

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    I don't want to be rude but is the "type" of the girl part of her looks?
     
  7. KT

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    no offense, that's a douche move. lol man up and tell her directly instead of making her think you hung up on her on purpose.
     
  8. but he did hang up on her on purpose....


    but other than that... i would have to agree... just tell it like it is....
     
  9. robsh

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    its morning so...
    i call her or wait for her to call me???
    i know its a cowardly move too
    but i ve never turn down any1 before
    what should i say...... pls help

    i saw some really hot girls at where she is working, so anyway i can still retain my rep
     
  10. Flames

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    yeah, just say your phone battery died if asked
     
  11. robsh

    robsh Well-Known Member

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    damn she called again just now
    but this time i really missed her call coz i was at a meeting
    so i send her a text ' sorry i missed ur call. i am at a meeting. wassup'

    but now that i think about it, her enlgish isnt good hope she understands it
    so i have decided to call her tonight during my nightshift
    but
    WHAT THE FUCK AND HOW THE FUCK SHOULD I TELL HER!!!!???

    help me ...
     
  12. bishonens

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    Be honest about it. Just tell her that you don't have any intentions of dating her and would just like to be friends. She won't hate you for being honest, it's better than beating around the bush.
     
  13. robsh

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    ok i think i will call her the same time she called me last night
    tell her:'I dont think we are right for each other, i dont have feeling for you, lets be friends'

    What do you guys think.
     
  14. lol..

    but yea.. I just find it very amusing how you keep giving us a detailed update of what's going down.. the play by play hahah..

    yea.. tell her that.. there's really no other way..
     
  15. robsh

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    ok i'm gonna call her
    wish me luck PA

    update: she didnt answer my call
     
  16. Flames

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    ^dude you sure you got the right number?
     
  17. robsh

    robsh Well-Known Member

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    ^number should be right had it saved on my mobile
    should i try again its just 1011pm now
    or am i really a douche now
    i still want to see the other girls at where she works
    i want to keep a good reputation
     
  18. HAhaah.. don't worry.. once you turn down either way shes gonna grill your ass to the other girls at work..

    just don't bother calling.. it's late.. if she calls and ask you for a date or something then you turn to her down and tell her. If not just talk to her.. cause it seems that you are ok with being friends with her..
     
  19. robsh

    robsh Well-Known Member

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    welldone ecks, thanks for the advise
    u rock
     
  20. robsh

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    just when i thought its all over she called again while i was at work
    so missd the call but i did call her back in 1 min
    ask her wassup and told her i was working when i missed the call,
    she ask what i call her last night for
    so i said that: 'you called me yesterday so i was just calling you back last night'
    she: ' I called because i have something to ask you, but its nothing now, you can go back to work now'
    robsh: ' ok, if its no thing then, goodbye.'

    fuck man i feel i am writing a movie script or something... maybe i should
    but pls tell me its over....