she asked the other ppl!? hmmmm awkward she either doesnt wanna be alone with u for some reason or maybe she already made plans with the others then... do u still feel like going? if u like the other ppl too just go... if not...its a bit weird to say u cant come all of a sudden....
still continue with the plans. she mite c u as a cool dude that doesn't mind being romantic in front of others
I think you're gonna be the unexpected guest =p But yea, chill with their friends, if they're cool with you... you're set for the girl
if you know them too....i dun see why you should cancel....just go too.....and if you're worried about feeling left out mebe ask some of your friends to go too....plus that way you can ask your friends to distract her gurlie friends whilst you and her have a private moment... have fun & good luck..-flow
Thanks for your feedback =] The crowd is gonna be pretty much the same people i hung out with last night. I mean, we're not strangers so it's nothing awkward. The thing is, the guys tend to hit on her often, she is quite attractive. I guess you're right she might still be uncomfortable, so I guess I'll just have to deal with them. And I guess she didn't mean for them to come, cus one of the girls is a really close friend of her's. No surprise. They're always together anyway, so I would have felt bad if there's one without the other. But I hope the rest of our dates aren't gonna turn out like this lol. I know she has some feelings for me, so those guys aren't really a threat. I gots this in the bag! thanks guys! wish me luck~
give her time since she's not quite ready yet show her you can have a good time with her AND her friends (a girl's friends are important, how you treat them and how they view you)
just go....im sure it will be fine i was at a xmas party last week. it was a family one, so i felt like an unexpected guest...........then I and the relatives had fun.
I think you should go together, with her and her friends, i mean. Show to her friends how nice and caring you are to her and to her friends. This will benefit both you and your relationship with her because if you truly want to ask her out/date her in the future, she will definitely ask her friends for their advice. If her friends think that you are a nice guy to hang out, then you will have a very high chance of dating her. Girls cannot make decisions on their own. They usually ask for other people's (i.e. friends) opinion before they decide on something. IF YOU WANT A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP WITH A GIRL, KNOW HER FRIENDS WELL!!
here what you do: talk to her friends, make friends with her friends, get along with them first before talking to your suppose girl lols. why? her friends is your obstacles, once you get pass the obstacles, you won't have problems with talking to her, etc.. i know my stuff. thank me if it is useful.
I think you should become friends with her friends and approach from there. Well, you might get some advice from her firends too. good luck n hope she wont be seein this post!
