Upgrading BF/GF's?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by gogo123, Jun 8, 2006.

  1. gogo123

    gogo123 Well-Known Member

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    I was curious though, but for all you guys/girls out there. When you get into a relationship, do u always look for a bf/gf that is better (personality, looks, characteristics, physique) than your previous bf/gf?

    I had a debate with a few of my female friends and they said that I'm too picky with this upgrading standard. I personally believe that you must always look forward, and not backwards. Otherwise, you lose focus of what you want.

    What is everyone's take on this?
     
  2. peachey

    peachey Well-Known Member

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    (personality, looks, characteristics, physique) > of course you'd want to look for someone better in at least one of those aspects. because if your previous gf/bf was already all that you wanted, you wouldn't have broken up with her/him.
     
  3. AVANT

    AVANT Well-Known Member

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    I believe one should look forward and not backward as well, but I don't see it the way you do.

    Being in previous relationships helps one fine-tune his/her senses for picking someone so we don't have to date people that won't live up to our standards.

    So, No, I don't upgrading my standards, I already know what I want (just haven't run into her yet). Every person has their strengths and weaknesses. If i'm attracted to their strengths, and can tolerate their weaknesses, then I'll give it a go.

    And peachey, my last gf was awesome, she was what I wanted, but our circumstances made it difficult and we had no real choice but to break up.
     
  4. Upgrading!? I think the only upgrade I'd want would be if she had rocket boots for double jumping n sliding and maybe an upgraded blaster cannon for add firepower!
     
  5. goo wak jai

    goo wak jai Well-Known Member

    lol yeah of course looking for better gfs each time
     
  6. Lawson

    Lawson Member

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    of course you look for a better one,so when your over ,you have someone hotter to make them jealous
     
  7. Nirvania

    Nirvania I'm BRACK!?

    upgrade them like you would do a computer.
     
  8. rideondiss

    rideondiss Well-Known Member

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    I don't about upgarding. But all i know that the more you get "g/f" the more you learn the different between their legs ..i mean...Personality.
     
  9. Throw some extra Ram on her so she can multitask... add a higher processor so she can run faster!

    ahahaha... right...

    Yea so you hear people lowering their standards all the time... Lowered Expectations.... -whistle... but you never reall hear people raising their standards... that jus seems a lot hard to keep finding some1 better than the previous... unless the previous person was really terrible...


    What Can I Mix In With My Juice....? -whistle
     
  10. Nirvania

    Nirvania I'm BRACK!?

    get better graphics card and she will look nicer!
     
  11. peachey

    peachey Well-Known Member

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    oh lord, boys and their gadgets... -rolleyes
     
  12. Nirvania

    Nirvania I'm BRACK!?

    oh, lord, girls and their guys
     
  13. oh, lorrr, crackheads and their crack.... -whistle



    What Can I Mix In With My Juice...? -whistle
     
  14. Nirvania

    Nirvania I'm BRACK!?

    oh lord........whats that thing on your avatar? looks like frieza
     
  15. LJai

    LJai Member

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    Wow...can the term 'upgrading' be used with people? xD
     
  16. Nirvania

    Nirvania I'm BRACK!?

    yesh!! why did it say UPGRADE, why not improve
     
  17. OSJ

    OSJ Well-Known Member

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    coz its an online relationship lolz
     
  18. Nirvania

    Nirvania I'm BRACK!?

    we never said anything about a online relationship, its just an online conversation!
     
  19. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    well u could always "replace" rather than "upgrade" hehehe

    wonder if sli graphics makes it even prettier? lol
     
  20. no i try not to compare the 2... coz it's unfair... everyone's different...

    but it's funny coz wot i loved abt my ex... my current doesn't have... wot i love abt my current... my ex don't have :p