Keeping abstinent from sex until marriage does not seem to be on the cards of youngsters these days. Today’s teens seem to be unperturbed by losing one’s virginity early in a relationship. Former F4 member, Vanness Wu (吴建豪), however feels that keeping purity for your significant other is a very important thing to do. Vanness admitted that he lost his virginity when he was a teenager. Since he became a Christian, he has taken a chastity pledge and is against pre-marital sex. He vows that he will abstain from sex until he enters marriage. In one of his recent interviews, he said that both he and his girlfriend have the same consensus and thinks that virginity is a precious gift for the spouse and added that it is a priceless treasure. Due to the influence from his mother, Vanness loves to cook and claims that his culinary skills are quite good. He also strongly believes that being able to cook well is an attractive virtue to have. At a recent event, Vanness showed off his cooking skills by making an ideal cold dessert for the summer months and because his mother often cooks good food for him, subsequently, Vanness fell in love with cooking. Vanness admits that “knowing how to cook may not be a prerequisite in a relationship, however, whether it’s the guy or the girl, knowing how to cook is indeed very appealing.” Keeping a very tight schedule with many incoming job offers, Vanness admits that getting the “mood” is most challenging. “Last time because of work pressure, I will dump all negative vibes on people around me, but once I have religion I can adjust my frustrations.” Besides having his character changed for the better, religion has also make Vanness sign a declaration that he will not have sex before marriage. Vanness said, “This will be the most precious gift you can give your spouse on your wedding day. My girlfriend and I share the same sentiment.” Creds: QQ
