Wedding

Discussion in 'Chinese Chat' started by smartangel, May 12, 2009.

  1. smartangel

    smartangel Well-Known Member

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    Do you guy prefer to get a chinese style wedding or western style wedding.......

    I am more prefer to have a chinese wedding
     
  2. ab289

    ab289 Well-Known Member

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    probably a combination of both. but then, i'm seeing a white girl so ...
     
  3. EvilTofu

    EvilTofu 吃|✿|0(。◕‿◕。)0|✿|吃

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    Money talks, I do see a lot of mixed combinations of west and east these days. Whatever works. It also depends who's coming to the wedding. If you have a lot of chinese, especially the older guests coming, don't bother with the western, they will not like the food.

    Chinese style seem more out going and less formal, and for the western, I always feel like it's more formal. Any wedding is a bitch to plan...
     
  4. bubblez_girl

    bubblez_girl Active Member

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    I like a mixture. For my wedding, it was a mixed of western, chinese, and vietnamese.
     
  5. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    if i had one wedding it would be chinese since its more respectful to parents...if i had 2 weddings it'll be one each lol
     
  6. [mJ9]

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    how's a chinese style wedding??here,most Chinese people does it the catholic style..
     
  7. lotsa ppl have a combo... western during the day n chinese at night... so u get to dress pretty in a white wedding dress n take lots of beautiful photos during the day... n then get all the gold n wedding red pockets at night... puahahahaha...
     
  8. mr_evolution

    mr_evolution ( • )( •ԅ(ˆ⌣ˆԅ)

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    Yeah I notice that a lot, usually Western Outdoor Garden in the daytime, and a Chin restaurant at night
     
  9. [mJ9]

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    but it cost to organize 2 weddings:p
     
  10. kwan1031

    kwan1031 New Member

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    I actually never attended a chinese wedding... How does it work? lol
     
  11. that's y u make sure the guests give cash in red pockets instead of getting wedding gift to minimize the cost -lolv
     
  12. AARONBOEYKHG

    AARONBOEYKHG Well-Known Member

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    normally its chinese for tea ceremony and western for wedding day and wedding dinner in my country....I prefer both
     
  13. Powerz

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    I myself had a Western wedding and Chinese wedding combo last year.

    I had an gift-giving ceremony two weeks before (due to time contraints) with a big roasted pig and lots of whole chickens, ancestor and god worshipping, etc.
    Starting the night before, I had the "sern tao" hair combing ceremony
    On the morning of the wedding, we had the door games (where bridesmaids play the groom and his groomsmen)
    Then, I had the tea ceremony
    In the afternoon, I had a church wedding
    Took some pictures at the park
    Then in the evening was the party and the Chinese Banquet

    Since I married a Korean, I am having an additional wedding ceremony in Korea this year, which is also a combination of western/korean style.
     
  14. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    lol thats what my uncle did :laugh2:

    i'd like to do sometihng like that for my wedding one day xD
     
  15. ralphrepo

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    Western gown, portraiture, civil ceremony, with Chinese wedding banquet in HK, had another banquet for her relatives in Shanghai. Luckily, my family flew in from the states or else I would have had to have one in the US too. Despite that it was well over 100G, and that was twenty year ago.

    I told her that if we divorced I would sell her to recoup my money, LOL...
     
  16. tiapk7932

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    I recently attended a Chinese/Japanese wedding. In the morning, the bride had her bridesmaids play games against the groom and groomsmen before they could enter the house to pick up the bride (Chinese tradition). Then they had the tea ceremony with the elders. In the afternoon, she wore a Japanese kimono for the wedding inside a Kinko (?) temple. Afterwards, dinner at a Chinese restaurant. They decided to against doing something western as they wanted to be more traditional.
     
  17. mr_evolution

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    Sounds like one hella of day for the pair