When you are in a relationship, what things do you expect your girl/boyfriend to do or what character will you demand out of her/him? Would you try to change her/him in any way? What will you do or not do? Right now, I'm in a relationship and what I expect out of my bf is that he be kind, understanding, and loyal . I haven't been with him for very long, but so far, so good! At the moment, there isn't anything about him I would like to change. I like him just the way he is -cool but in the future, if I feel like he is taking the wrong path, I will try to encourage him to change. Although I'm silently hoping that that day never comes..lol
Must, must, must provide me with a sense of security. I want to know that he can/will take care of me in the event that I won't be able to do so myself. Must have goals/ambitions. We cannot remain stagnant in life... and I'm not about to take on a baby-sitting job. Must have respect... he should respect me, my family, and my decisions. I wouldn't be proactive in changing anybody, because you can't change anybody unless they themselves want to change. Loving somebody is loving the good parts about them and being able to see past their faults. Of course, if it's a big fault, then you obviously shouldn't look past it. But being in a relationship, it's all about compromise. You give a little, you take a little. If he sees that something about him bothers me, then he should try to change that. On the same token, if there is something that he doesn't like about me, I should try to improve myself.
UNDERSTANDING is a BIG must! He also has to be considerate of others, and have a good sense of humor. Don't really care much for looks as long as he looks better than William Hung.
When you are in a relationship, what things do you expect your girl/boyfriend to do or what character will you demand out of her/him? Would you try to change her/him in any way? What will you do or not do? when im in a relationship i would expect the boyfriend to have my bak stand up for me i dont care about flowers and candy all i want is a guy that would be there for me when i need a shoulder to cry on
Okay, time to start scaring people -devil Guys, you have to realize that the girls want as an ideal, tall (6'+ above national average), 6 pack, healthy, confident but not cocky/caring but not clingy/smart but not nerdy, charismatic/funny, tend-to-have-high standards as well type of guy. They worked HARD to get there. Number one, they get more girls courting them and they can easily court other girls if need be. Number two, if you did not meet their standards they can easily depart anytime. This DOES NOT MAKE THEM A PLAYER. A player is a guy who actively persues girls to have sex with them for a while, and then proceeds to dump/cheat on them and move on to the next target (or rather victim -lol). Anyway, in response to this thread, I expect my girl to excercise and eat healthy. Guys who have 6 packs (i.e. ME! lmao ok, I'm not this cocky in real life.. HONEST! -innocent2) have at least 10% and lower body fat, and have a very special diet, and/or excercise program to keep in shape. If they can't cook for the guy, that is NOT a big deal actually because guys who stay fit or have lean muscles tend to learn to cook or themselves. I certainly have... Sometimes I prefer to do the cooking. No stupid games and tests to get reactions. I hate those. Enjoys sex (this applies to the older crowd). Oh, and one other important message: Girls NEVER know what they want! Sigmund Freud was right... They just want what they cannot have... once they have that, they no longer want it, which goes to explain why the everchanging "bad boys" are generally more attractive to girls. Remember this guys remember it, remember it. This will make so much sense as you get older.
some characteristics that i would look for in a guy is that he can respect my descisons and like me for me..he has to be willing to stay with me when im down or when i need him for whatever reason. he also has to have a goal in life, not just be like all fun and games and not care about the future...lol buh not tooo serious cause then it's just so bLah! =P must importantly..he has to be hottttt and not so cocky && haha 6 pack! =P
I only expect my bf to not have expectations of me. You aren't suppose to find someone and mould them into what u want. They are suppose to be everything or most of what you want!
i donno what i want, but i know what i don't want not a snob, fake, insecure, dumb, a cheat, unattractive... that's bout it, anything else i can accept