I don't know if there is secret message in the words girl say but it very confusing to me some time. Recently i told a girl that i like her and here is her respone " if you would have told me sooner, then i could have had you taken care of me". Like what the hell does that mean! I was expecting a "sorry,no" but that was like confusing. Yes she is dating someone at that time and 3 week later they were bf & gf. The repones she gave me, don't feel like a "no" or a " yes". now i'm confuse as to should i wait for her or not.
well if ya really into the girl... then jus keep tryin'. seems like she had interest in you as well.. just that you were a lil late. so if ya think she's worth it.... keep tryin and win her over. Maybe she wont stick around that guy.
"if you would have told me sooner, then i could have had you taken care of me". translation: "you're too late and I've already found someone else." You've missed your chance, buddy. She probably harbored some feelings for you, but didn't know how you felt, thus took her chances with the other guy instead. Since you confessed your feelings to her whilst she was still "dating" the guy, she could have easily stopped dating him and went out with you had her feelings for you been stronger. But since she chose to hook up with the guy 3 weeks after you confessed, perhaps she's already made up her mind to be with him. Whether or not you should stick around & wait for her, that's up to you to decide. Sounds to me as if she's already moved on.
ahh dun give up man... sometimes ya gotta be a lil aggressive if ya gonna go for somethin' you want. hmm i'm a lil unclear so she was with the guy when you asked her... and then 3 weeks later they went out officially?? did you do anything like continued your conquest for that ass... -lol sorry. but yea... maybe just try to hang out with her kinda like a friend... and slowly win her over if ya feel she's worth it.
Actually, to me that sounds like she wants to keep you as "backup". She doesn't want to say no because she doesn't want to risk the possibility things might not work with the other guy. It could be that she's interested and the timing's not right, or it could be that she's not that interested in either guy. If she was set on one of the two guys, she'd have rejected the other one. Well, either way, you still have a chance since she doesn't seem to be that sure of herself.
yup on the other hand it's like..."if you would have told me sooner, then i could have had you taken care of me" sounds kinda like she jus needs someone to take care of her... aka... buy her shit... -lol. so idunno... do you know her well enough to know she's not that kinda person??
Well I known her for like 5 years and i really don't think she that kind of person. She really down to Earth and stuff. (plus she don't have a LV that gotta say something! lol)
lol quit bein cheap... lol nah jk... but damn 5 years... and ya waited that long...ultimately can't really blame anyone but yourself for takin' so long. but hey since you've known her for that long she's bound to still have you on her mind. don't give up man! -rockon
Trying but it getting hard.. since her new bf is taking her to hawaii for a week!!! Just the two of them together there................sigh*
oh well screw that... it's over for you... -lol are you sure she's that not kinda girl... i mean damn... hawaii...!! and she's only been with dude for a few weeks!? ok here's what you should do... find out when they are departing... run, drive, take the bus... whatever you have to do to get to the airport... and right before she leaves...... give that ass one good kiss goodbye... -lol
