what if your bf/gf parents dont seems to like u?, What would u do?

Hmm...juz wanna share my fren's story with u peeps here. He went to meet his gf's parent for the third time alrd. But he felt tht her parent dun seems to like him as they dun treat him politely. Worst is they hardly talk to him. He did tried to talk abt this with his gf but all she said is "Give them sumtime. It'll be okay. No worries".

So, wht would you do if u figure out that ur bf/gf do not have good impression on u or they do not seems to like u?

 

I'd try to find out -detect why the parents don't dig me.
It has hardly happened to me, so I haf no idea how to go about doing it... lol, prolly the first thing I'd do is ask my bf about it.

They are his parents, after all. So they might haf told him why or he can possibly find out why they seem to be cold, rite? Then, after finding out the 'reason' then only I can plan what to do next

 

Aww, phoenixgirl, don't worry. U look sweet and ur such a nice girl i am sure they won't have any problems with you!

 

At the end of the day, its our relationship and ok, theyre his parents but its our love life. I wouldn't care less if my bf parents didnt like me, as long as I'm polite to them and do all the necessary things and their attitudes dont change then fine. If they want to make their son/daughter to be in the middle of a family feud then so be it. Sorry if it may sound selfish but I just don't think parents have the right to not like their future son/daughter in law when the son/daughter is in a happy relationship.

 

^Just be ur normal self and u'll b fine... As long as ur normal self is polite... lol

 

Well, to be safe, don't put on heavy make up (natural makeup) and don't dress sexily...

 

cool, but u know some parents are REALLY traditional.
So best bet would be a skirt with a decent length...

 

Yeah so safe bet would be a skirt then.. Just look as feminine as possible and be polite and shy.. lol

 

Lol, u mean ur only meeting up when ur planning to get married?