What if?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by bubblegum, Nov 12, 2006.

  1. bubblegum

    bubblegum Well-Known Member

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    We face many situations in our relationships, so I would like to put forth some situations that we might have faced or might face.....and you can write your opinion on what would you do.

    What would you do if.....

    You like this boy/girl, and he/she doesn't like a certain thing about the way you look, and he/she wants you to change it. So would you change the way you look and the way you are just for the sake of that person, or stay the way you are and forget that person?
     
  2. peachey

    peachey Well-Known Member

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    Depends on what it is. If it's something superficial, then no. But if it's a problem with me that I know I should change (bad habits, etc) then I'd try.
     
  3. chiehc87

    chiehc87 Well-Known Member

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    i would suggest the person to change it. go with it. but if that "change(s)" becomes a dislike -- there is no need to keep it.

    so change back.

    And if the other party doesn't allow you to change back. forget him/her. too controlling.
     
    #3 chiehc87, Nov 13, 2006
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  4. volkly

    volkly Well-Known Member

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    If that happens, I'll give it a shot to change. I'll want to know why she wants me to change how I look and why she feels that way.