What is the right gift for a first date

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by rax_7, Jun 6, 2010.

  1. rax_7

    rax_7 Well-Known Member

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    i met an Eurasian girl from where i work. she's half white and half asian. To be specific, she is half American and half Korean. we talk a lot and get along pretty well. i finally had the courage to ask her out today. now i need to know what the first present should be. i think flowers is boring. dont you think? but beside that, i cant think of anything else? any idea? thanks.
     
  2. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    why you gotta get her present on a first date? just relax and get to know her over coffee to see if ya'll really are compatible for one another.
     
  3. rax_7

    rax_7 Well-Known Member

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    i thought present is necessary for a first date.
     
  4. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    no ... present is important if you're meeting her parents or whatever... not on a first date.

    you're not trying to buy her love, are you?
     
  5. Flames

    Flames Out of Date User

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    First date + present?!?!
    Are you mad?!?!
     
  6. rax_7

    rax_7 Well-Known Member

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    LOL first time dating. no experience.
     
  7. KaY_xD

    KaY_xD 但願人長久,千里共嬋娟

    yeah, no gifts, gifts on first dates might complicate her feelings to you, basicaly u guys want to see whether each other is worth to date and develop a relationship, chill, unless u knw she likes u alot too
     
  8. -Tisken-

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  9. mr_evolution

    mr_evolution ( • )( •ԅ(ˆ⌣ˆԅ)

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    Once you get her a gift on the first date, she'll be expecting one on the 2nd, 3rd, etc.
     
  10. candeee

    candeee Well-Known Member

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    I agree...don't need a gift for the first date. If you really want, you can offer to pay for the meal...
     
  11. Afa

    Afa Well-Known Member

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    "Ive got a coupon, thought u might like it"
     
  12. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

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    Give her a gift that she'll never forget
    *wink with a giggle*
     
  13. casshern

    casshern Well-Known Member

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    LOL no sh!t.

    Get her a 4k diamond ring. She'll fall madly in love with you for sure. :)
     
  14. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    Just insist to pay for everything. Don't wanna seem cheap.

    If you must give her a present, the ol' dick-in-a-box is always a classy one.
     
  15. [mJ9]

    [mJ9] Well-Known Member

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    For a first date,there is no need to give her a present and like fearless said,insist on paying for everything instead
     
  16. Choy1314

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    if you really think u want to get her something. for me. i would get something small like a bunch of flowers or box of choc its not a big thing but it will spice it up.

    you dnt need to impress her by buying her an audi R8 or somthing. just be yourself that day. :)
     
  17. wal

    wal Well-Known Member

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    just pay the bill i'd say, if you want more you could go to the movies together (no action movies unless she really enjoys them) and you could pay that as well.
     
  18. Choy1314

    Choy1314 Well-Known Member

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    safe the action movies till you get in bed haha jk jk
     
  19. haun

    haun Well-Known Member

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    get her a condom gift, but make sure you ask wat flavor she likes first. no gift, movie, restaurant.........................until you are satisfied.

    jk..................sorry, i just have this urge to troll coz there is just too many of this kind of posts.
     
  20. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    who gives a gift on the first date? it will seem strange and if it doesn't work out surely then u will be spending a lot of money if u go out with lots of people.