I met him on the net around March,2009.At the beginning,we talked about all the interests,we both felt we have the same tastes in music and film.He is a English just came to China,to be an English teacher there.I live far away from him,we looked each other from webcam,but he never voice chat with me.He said he was very shy. After few months,i felt he changed,then i knew he got a chinese gf,I said congratulations.Last month,he told me his gf broke up with him,because he will go to another city in feb of 2010,she cant go with him.When i saw him from webcam,saw his cry face,i feel so upset.I told him there are many girls live in this world,hope he will recover soon. After that day,he sent phone msg to me and even called me.He told me he will choose the next city near me,he wants meet me.To be honest,i like him,but now he still with his gf,he told me there is a promise between them,one of them leaves that city,then their relationship is over. I dont know why he is still with his gf,then says these words to me!What can i do in this situation?Should i trust him?
It's just some guy on the internet. I would suggest you not to trust him so much with your feelings. If he only calls you the day after he got dumped then wouldn't you think in a way he is just using you as a rebound? Sorry, but this is for your own good. Don't trust him so much!
Let's keep this simple. Don't trust just anyone. At the end of the day, you're the only one that is hurt.
the reason they are still together is because it's ease of access...... anyways....... yeah don't be so quick to trust him... be cautious when meeting him...
ill be blunt. He wants to have sex with you, after he's done with you he will find another gf or move on to another city. imo dont even meet this creep in rl. simple as that.
i know i should not trust the guy over the net,but is there anyone whose gf or bf met from net?can anyone tell what they begin their relationship? I think i will give him a little time to over his relationship with her,and i am waiting to see what will happen between us,it is not a long time,right?
what has anyone else got to do with him? im guessing your gona end up being one of his conquests anyway.-shrug
are you really that desperate for a guy over the net? he also have a gf too, i mean the guy could be simply playing with you like wat master_g said
Sounds like he just wants to spread his STD's around. Watch out. Don't be foolish and naive about people like this. Anybody can come up with a sob story just to get your attention. Waking up from a mind game is more painful than physical pain. STAY AWAY FROM THIS GUY!
why don't u take your own advise... there are plenty of guys out there...!! why don't u date someone you already know and have met...??
No. It's not worth it. The guys is stringing you along, and while he might be nice, he will only hurt you in the end. If he can fall for you this quickly, imagine how many other girls he can do that to at the same time.
