how should i start this off..? wells backk in october of 08 ; i met this guy. he first added me on fb [[facebook]] and said he's seen me before . yu kno my first thought was ; he's a stalker or something , so i didnt really care about him and didnt really give him a reply everytime he talked to me . then i found out that he's one of my friend's cousin and he doesnt live in NY ; he only comes to visit like once a month . he hangs out at the handball courts i hang out at because his cousin goes there . he said he's seen me around there . then one day , he called my cell out of no where because he got it from a friend and told me that he wanted to meet up with me before he left NY . i said sure ; if im ever around ... but everytime i stopped by the handball courts ; i left before he even got there . then i started to talk to him on fb to apologize to him , then i started talking on the phone with him almost every night . at that time ; he was dealing with a girl he was having trouble with at the time , i was there for him and tried to make him happy . i wanted to get to know him more because he seemed like a very interesting person ; he wasn't a bad type of a person ; he was really nice and really sweet . we got really close and i started to open up to him . then after about a month ; in November 13th of 08 ; he asked me to give him a chance ; i said yes . we were official . when he came back to NY ; we was together . i was skeptical about everything , that it was like a joke ; but the way he treated me , the way he cared for me didnt seem like a joke . so it was kinda serious - ish . we spent a lot of time together when he came back for that week , it was like a dream ... sorta ... we walked around ; talking & laughing , held hands , kissed . Even when i was home and he was still hanging out with his friends ; he still talked to me pn the phone . but then it felt like such a short time ; then he left . i was sad that he left ; i cried for a couple of hours but he called me that night and talked to me for a very long time n comforted me . Everything after that day was alright . then christmas came around ... he was so eager to see me ; he came back on the 21st , on the 22nd and 23rd i spent the day with him , he told me that he had party on 24th n 25th so i was like okay ; just promise me that he would see me on xmas , he said yes . then 24th -26th ; he went .M.I.A. [[Missing in Action]] on me , he didnt answer my phone calls ... only to leave me finding out that he screwed a friend of mine ... their excuse to me was " i was too high to know what i was doing " i didnt know what was wrong with me ; but i forgave him at that time ; then everything was normal again . During that time ; i tried to comfort my friend at the same time as well because she said she was sorry n she meant it or at least i thought she did ... then i found out that the girl liked him ... i didnt really know what to do ; but i dnt like to be mean so i asked him at the time if he liked her , he got pissed n said think what yu wanna think ; im not going to care . i cried the whole night ... then in january ; the girl decided to run away from her problems and run away from home ; and the first thing she thought of was going to my bf`s place in OH . when he came back ; he drove her back as well , he didnt talk to me , didnt even bother to see me ... then i found out that they was together a couple of weeks ago ... then he keeps telling me that he is sorry ; he owes me an explanation and that i will understand a week from then , i wasnt expecting much ; i knew it was over but for some reason why ; i thought there was still hope ... well its a week now ... he's back in NY , she was with him , but he doesnt show up around the handball courts anymore . i really dunno , should i give him a chance to explain ? or should i just say F it ; i dnt care ? am i too nice ? too understanding ? -sigh- i dnt kno what to think . :[
you want my advice... it sounds harsh. But this guy is honestly not worth your time and energy. You're better off cutting him off at the knees.
almost all the guys in the world are like that. When a guy likes u, he will pretend to be nice toward u, but when he get bored of u, he will treat u like crap. U should ask ur friends to evaluate your guy before u start dating him. Just forget this guy, he is just a typical SOB So, can i have your fb now?
omg, i'm so sorry to hear that....he's an asshole. as hard and tough as it may sound, forget about him. he's not here for you, he never was. who knows how many girlfriends he had or still has? you deserve better!
See man guys like him make girls think there isn't any nice, loyal man out there anymore. *Sad*Sad* but yah i'm really sorry that there is soo many stupid dumb ass guys out there, I honestly think you deserve better, someone that isn't a cheater or liar. From the sound of it you're a great girl and i feel you can totally find someone better. Move On, Ditch this F-KER . Don't bother sitting arouND waiTing...No more Excuse ..Leave hiM, Ur better off without this LOsER :wiggle:
i feel sorry for u...u sound young n naive...but ppl make mistakes...hopefully u will learn from urs... He literally screwed another girl...n what do u do...u FORGIVE him just like that n go comfort the bitch who had sex with ur BF....WHAT THE HELL ok theres a difference between being mean n giving ppl what they deserve.... cheating = piss off! especially the way he did it!! how can u still have hope or even still wanna be with him..the guy is OBVIOUSLY digging the other chick n has forgotten abt u n is not taking u in consideration.. i hope the dude gets screwed over by that girl n that they both get STD!!! Done.
he screwed a friend of yours and you had to find out yourself which must be hard and you forgave him, theres no another chance. not worth your time ~ gonna be hard to forget but you'll get over it eventually and move on and find another ~
he sounds realllly dodgy... some ppl may say that you can get to know someone really quickly... but i think it takes time to know someone personally .. and like..properly... and you knew him for about a month right? oct to mid november right? >_<" you shouldn't trust him. but yeh... go with your instincts!! all the best...
