Hi I have an issue that i would like to hear from others opinion especially those who have experienced it before. I have this really close female friend, she is basically a perfect girl. She is very funny & genuine. Very honest and pretty too. We basically spend time together 6 days a week & i see that she is a potential but i dont' have that feeling towards her. I think it is an interest type of feeling & i want to tell her but i'm afraid what if we give it a try and it doesn't work. I'm afraid that once we give it a go then the feeling does not grow. I don't want to do that to her cos i REALLY want to fall for her head ova heels. She deserves that kinda treatment. What should I do?
if u don't have that feeling for her i suggest u to think it, because u can lose a close friendship with her, later u and she will feel that don't have that comunication that has before
I'm a lil confused?? so she likes you and told you about it... but your just not too into her?? but yea I agree with what Sai says... if you have the least bit of doubt that it wouldn't work out... you should def. steer away..
may b she does... but do u know wot her feelings r towards u?? how old r u anyway?? nothing is guaranteed... even if u do marry her she might divorce u in the end...
The thing is when i am with her i do feel something. She did hint that she has an interest in me. The thing i'm afraid that if we give it a go it might not work out. But i strongly believe it won't cos our friendship to really crumble. It might b ackward at first but we will be good friends again. However i believe i should wait to see what happens. I think i should wait until i am more certain about my feelings. I am 25 by the way.
yea dude good idea... but I mean if yall really do have a thing going on.. don't drag it out... def. go for it if there "something." It can happen that yall remain good friends if yall end up breaking up.. so I guess a lil awkwardness wouldn't really matter..
well dude u can try to starta relationship with her, but if u feel the relation doesn't work u can told her that
Lol things either most likely always go right or always go wrong at the beginning it's two extrememes!! 1. Consider her personality, is she mature enough to try it out? Let for example start it and drop it when you feel it ain't workingout. Or is she the kind that is pulling Miss. Emo on you. 2. I dont' see a problem i mean you been spending quite a bit of time with her and from the looks of it the more you spend withher the more you like her. So there's definately interest. U can find out how she feels about you.
give her some subtle hints that you care for her more than normal friends would then you'll gradually get closer to her. just remember to take it slow
