What to do?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by blackmagic, Jun 22, 2006.

  1. blackmagic

    blackmagic Well-Known Member

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    Everytime i like someone very much i pretend that i dont' like that person... well not everytime, but right now I like this one person very much and i always pretend that i don't like him, becuz i don't want to seem like a weak person to my friends. And if i see him, i don't want to look like a fool if he knows that i like him, but he doesn't like me back. I am afraid of rejections, but it's getting really tiring to suppress emotions too much. So what would you guys do? Would you just tell him that you like him and not care if he rejects you?
     
  2. Aznguy123

    Aznguy123 Well-Known Member

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    ask him ...... if u get rejected.............. Life Goes on ...........


    good luck :D
     
  3. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    wats the worst that can happen? a NO it won't kil u or anything... just tell him u like him
     
  4. suijei

    suijei Well-Known Member

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    hell naw! I'd take it to my grave.. lol but then again, that's me.
     
  5. just work some of that blackmagic on 'em....
     
  6. suijei

    suijei Well-Known Member

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    That's right! they couldn't get rid of me in salem and no one can!!! BWAH HA HA
     
  7. lol you watch too much sabrina teenage witch...
     
  8. suijei

    suijei Well-Known Member

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    fine...
    You may think you burned me at the stake but you can never get rid of the voice in my head!
     
  9. blackmagic

    blackmagic Well-Known Member

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    Hahaha you guys make me laugh :p

    But hahah thanks for the suggestions..

    But what would I literally like say back to him if he rejects me? Like what would be my words? What if he makes fun of me for fessing up and physically pushes me away or something? :(

    What would I do? Just stand there and cry? lol
     
  10. suijei

    suijei Well-Known Member

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    no no! course not! You should take it like a mature adult. You confess, and right after confessing, demand an answer. If the answer is a "no", say thank you for your time and walk away. If he starts making fun of you, insult his intelligence and walk away like you don't need him.
     
  11. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    if he says no be like..."im the one who rejected u"
     
  12. suijei

    suijei Well-Known Member

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    nah...that'd leave you open for attack!
     
  13. peachey

    peachey Well-Known Member

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    Ahh no need for that.

    "Blackmagic", if he says no, you can go:

    "That's fine. No obligations." and move on! ahahah simple as that. Before he can think of how to reject you, you toss him aside. ;)
     
  14. ah what you know about being a mature "ADULT"!?

    no what you should say is... what No!? what you mean NO!? I'll cut you bitch!!

    But really if you still feel a bit shy... try to show some interest to him... Don't act like you don't like him!! since you really do... start flirting with him and what not... so then you can really know if he'll be interested and then asking him would make it that much more easier... -bigsmile




    Animals, Lions, Whales, Seals, Bears....
    Yall Fruits Cherry Grapes, Still Pears
     
  15. shy

    shy Well-Known Member

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    There was this guy that I thought I liked. He was giving me a lot of mixed signals. So one day, after we hung out, I told him that I liked him. He was shocked to hear that I liked him... but then he liked me too. But by the time he decided that he wanted a relationship, I'd already moved on...

    My point is, if you don't tell the guy, you'll just drive yourself crazy by wondering if he likes you or not. Try dropping subtle hints to him that you like him.

    As for your inquiry about whether or not a guy will make fun of a girl for fessing up to her feelings, I haven't encountered one yet. Most guys will be flattered when a girl tells him that she likes him.
     
  16. and if was he was that cocky to run his mouth... then you'll at least be glad he rejected you cuz he a jerk anyways...
     
  17. jtang

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    life is short, do what you think is right for you...
     
  18. wack him really hard on the head n knock him out... then rape him... muwahahahahaha...


    j/k


    just b urself... if he likes u then he likes the real u... if not then u can still b fds... no biggie
     
  19. Ctj

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    dun tell him just yet, try 2 be his fren & talk to him more.. need patience de
     
  20. p3ps1c0la

    p3ps1c0la Well-Known Member

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    I guess it's time to think about your happiness and what you want cause in the end you're the one who's going to be full of sadness and regrets. Take chances instead of asking what if.