Ok guys here's the story... I recently met this girl at a party and managed to slowly got her details and started talking to her on the phone, which we got along really well... she then send me a photo of her and to my amazement 1 of my ex is in there. So that night when I was taking her out I started asking questions and found out they were close friends.. what a small world LoL... So i told her that her friend is my ex and now it really stuffed up our relationship... should have keep my mouth shut and waited until we were officially going out... she dont want to hurt her friend by going out with me. the relationship me and my ex had was short, she broke it off and nothing ever happened.... I understand that this could affect their friendship but i dont know what to do... I know friends is greater than lover but I'm greedy and i dont want to lose her ... What would you do??
First talk with her about this. Then u ask from her friend ( your ex ), Will her accep this. After that you can go out... The imported thing is that you did tell to your ex..
well she dont want to tell her friend... she is scared it may break up their friendship in some way...
why would the girl you like think she would hurt her friend by going out with you. when it was your ex who broke it off. obivously your ex was the one who didn't want to keep the relationship with you. then why would your ex feel hurt that your going out with someone else.
lol I'm sorry.. it's kinda hard trying to take you seriously when your name is drunked... -lol but yea... that girl is trippin... if she likes you.. lol all I can think of right now.. is that girl is trippin'...
thas what I would say.. I mean if you're really into the girl.. you're basically the one whos going to the persistant one cuz she's obviously not going to make any more moves... so its up to you.
LoL i've been trying to tell her that she shouldnt feel awkward about it since it wasnt anything long and not like i was the one who broke it off.... I dunno how girls think sometime.. LoL Well right now i'm just giving her some time to think about it... wish I could tell what she is thinking right now... hehe
My opinion... Move on. 1) If she was really really into you, she would choose you over her friend. 2) The more you nag at her, the less she'll like you. Stay friends with her and meet more of her friends instead coz cute girls hang out with other cute girls (and they aren't all bound to be your ex's close friend).
aww...well if you really like her..then just go for it. if she isnt gonna do anything..you will have to do everything
Here's a lil twist... what if she was lying to you..... and.... she's went out with your ex before... -lol or is planning to...
