K. i met this girl, shes really hot and for some reason haha i like her. BUT I GOT NOTHING IN COMMON WITH HER! Now usually its easy to become friends when u at least got one thing in common. but i got nothin on this one. what should i talk about with her that doesnt make me sound like the average joe?
hey aznchicken, you don't have to have something in common to be together. To start with, just go with the flow and talk about whatever comes to your mind. Sometimes the best conversations come from improvising. Don't worry too much about it. We all start somewhere and whether it be talking about favorite movies to their dreams it all needs to begin somewhere. You can do it. I have faith.
nothing at ALL? not even a common teacher? do you have a friend whos friends with her, or a with her friend? i meet most of the friends i have now like that.. through a friend of a friend or w/e. just don't use one of those cheesy pick up lines.
looks like you don't have anything to talk about with her. but you will always find something to talk about if you think she's hot and want to maybe [at least] start a relationship. you like her but does she like you? give it a try and maybe you can get something going...............
i agree with pingsoon there is always something to talk about i mean in general ask her about wat she does or if shes studing what it is something that may help u move the conversation and slowly it could led to something more interesting about her and urself...
i don't see the problem....just stalk her to see what she's interested in...then do some research and pretend u like the same things!! i.e. omg you like sushi too?!?! Did you know that wasabi is not actually wasabi?
-lol i c u've learnt a lot after ur Tokyo trip what is wasabi then?? anyway just try to get involved into something she likes... like play the sport she likes or listen to the music she likes or watch the tv shows she likes... coz in the end even if u don't like the stuff at least u'll have something to talk abt...
uh. ya thats a good idea. getting to know her is one thing. but stalking? "hey i see u alot, are u following me or something?" haha. or u could always run away when she asks that-scooter
just dont talk to her then. =/ Actually im just kidding thats not a solution. Get a friend that you both know to set up an event and just be yourself. if anything happens have fun. If not, then dont talk to her. hAHA
it would be funny to stalk the girl and then pretend u guys like the same thing, but just be honest. walk up to her and just start a conversation like asking how are her classes/work going. talk to her about her interests/hobbies. oh.........thanksgiving is coming up. ask her what are her plans for the holiday. perfect~!
Amateurs!!! Just show up and show her a couple thousands bucks )) Then dress like a million bucks hehe... then tell her your dad is a millionaire!!! that always works...hehe (evil grin)
theres always something to talk about. i guess bring something up with your own interest, maybe it'll entertain her. or talking about what school she went too, colleges, must have at least one thing in common . food? movies? songs? sports? hobbies? one of them must be talkable.
I agree with babyyjuju; there's always something. Generally, the arts are a wide-open zone. Ask about music, tv, etc. There's always something to talk about, and if you happen to like the same things, even better
I agree with babyyjuju also. There are endless things to talk about. Since i'm asumming you go to school and so does she.....THERE!!!! you have something in common. Ask her what school she goes to if its not your, how is it, etc. If i'm with a girl and my mind goes blank, then i bring up the school topic or something related to it. LOL. I only use it if my brain and process info fast, LOL.
He's trying to make a non average joe impression though. Probing with interview questions are a definate no no (such as what school she went to) in those cases. The idea is to stand out and not sound like you're seeking her approval coz that's the fast lane to rejection land. Tachi's line and other random knowledge are generally good... 99 out of 100 people can't lick their elbows.
yo. talk to her about kissing and sex!!! Try it out. I know this girl that went out with this guy, and all he talked about was kissing, having sex and how much experience he has!!! I know it is true because her girlfriend told me.!!! She never went out with anyone so she was curious!!! Try it out and let use know the results!!!!
I would ask her if she drink with you and your friends, tell her to invite her friends too. from there on try to get to know her.
