What would you do if the girl/guy that you like rejected you? Give up or keep trying?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by TheKing903, Jun 26, 2006.

  1. TheKing903

    TheKing903 Member

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    Did this ever happen to you?? Personnally, I like this girl but i don't know if she likes me and i don't want her to reject me lol...
     
  2. Nirvania

    Nirvania I'm BRACK!?

    gosh man, your awfully asking alot of "asking out" questions. trying to ask a girl out, but dont got the nerve?
     
  3. i've never asked a guy out... so can't really say wot i'd do...

    guess i'll hang around n b fds with him till either he asks me out or till i get over him...
     
  4. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    i never got rejected b4..i didn't ask many girls i think thast y...i wonder if i'll ever get rejected hahaha...if u don't want ot get rejected..be careful of who to ask
     
  5. HK! Fish

    HK! Fish Well-Known Member

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    i would keep on trying, doesn't matter if that person rejected me, i would continue trying.
    that's only for some certain type of person, if they are not a bad person and doesn't have an attitude prob...
    but i doubt that they will reject, cuz i don't ask ppl at first. it's usually them that replied to me.

    but anyways, i never tried... lol
     
  6. dude you really gotta do yo homework before throw ish out there....

    http://www.dramasian.com/showthread.php?t=3074!!!


    if you're trying to holla at a girl. At least take some actions before second guessing yourself and asking questions... no girls like someone who is not confident... or at least lotta girls i know...
     
  7. Ecko can remember every thread that's ever been posted in PA... scary :p
     
  8. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

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    if i got rejected... then u're rejected...
    if it's not meant to be... it's not meant to be >.<
     
  9. AVANT

    AVANT Well-Known Member

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    Move on. If you truly believe that you're a great guy, then it's her loss. If you approach a girl with the idea that you'll be rejected, then you WILL be rejected. A nervous wreck is not attractive. Ask her with the attitude that you are there to make her day better.
     
  10. qwertyu

    qwertyu Member

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    actually feels kinda weird... well especially if u see her again which most probably will....:(

    keep trying probably would just end up annoying her ... keep it cool ... and probably you'll get ya chance someday, thats if u dnt fancy someone else!!
     
  11. mmmodem

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    definitely move on. Would you like someone you turned down to keep pestering you?
     
  12. dim8sum

    dim8sum ♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪....

    Id say after 2 tries just give up its not worth the hassle. Youve made your intentions clear and if its still a no then its a no.

    Really youve got nothing to loose, if you ask her and she says no then youve tried, but if you never ask, you will kill yourself wondering if she ever would have said yes
     
  13. babesteroxox33

    babesteroxox33 Active Member

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    well i never actually asked anyone out.. but anycase if you get rejected then ask her why she rejected you and if she saids she doesnt like you then theres nothing you can do and just give up on her. if you don't try you never know

    i think you should keep trying cause maybe she just wanna see how many patience you havee. like my frd. she rejected so many guys. n she told me that shes waiting for a guy whos not afraid of rejection cause she thinks that guys who are afraid of rejection arn't really men. yeah so keep trying :]
     
  14. hm... i really dunno.. depends on who it is cus i like guys esaily so if its smoe guy i really really liked.. maybe i'll keep trying.. i reallly dunnoo
     
  15. ceetal

    ceetal Well-Known Member

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    as a girl.. i'd lovee a persistant guy to ask me out
    but.. i dont think guys think the same way =T
     
  16. anti

    anti Well-Known Member

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    but don't u think a persistant guy keep askin u out be annoyin and off putting and make u wanan slap him if u refuse him once then that enough init he prob get the point n move on
     
  17. aznxdarkxanjo

    aznxdarkxanjo New Member

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    well u would never find out if u don't try? even if u do get rejected its alright there are 99.9 other girls in the world. lol
     
  18. person

    person Well-Known Member

    Yeah, move on would be the best. If you keep trying, you'll probably annoy them and they'll end up saying. "Ok, just screw off! Stop asking me! I'm not interested! Got it?"
    and that may hurt you. So to save yourself that, just move on. lol.
     
  19. Re: What would you do if the girl/guy that you like rejected you? Give up or keep try

    or you can look at it like... oh they kept tryin and the other person finally realizes how sincere n nice they are... but uhh i dunno... depends on how much you like the person...
     
  20. person

    person Well-Known Member

    ^ True... well depends though.
    This guy I talk to online thinks he has a chance with me, but I say no, and he can't seem to get that... eh whatever. Stupid guy on the internet... lol.
    Well if you know them, and they say no, then you should value your friendship.