I took my parents to monastery today and damn was I pissed at the visitors there. The temple locates up in the mountain and it's about 3 hours drive there. When we reached the top, there were a lot of people already there. I expect it to be a quiet, calm, and formal place where people dress properly. GUESS what, everywhere I turned, GAL were wearing really short skirts or tank tops. It was freaking COLD and WINDY. WHY? These gals were there to look for a husband. Ladies, there is a dress code when it comes to religious places. Take your hubby hunting else where like the bar or club. It doesn't make you look hot but like a ho and an eyesore. I was hit on a few time today alone so I know .. It was ridiculous. My parents and I were there to pray for my wife and our baby so yeah .. There's a time and a place for things, these women should know damn better.
its common to see these people at these places, my parents go to church and they see it all the time...lol but w/e, where i live we can't really do anything about...
where is this place is at and the name, never thought these places were so popular for these people to get business. Are they good looking? >.> The one I went to a few times, usually are mostly elderly people. It can get very busy on holidays though.
Shame.. only time I went to the monestary was in HK & they r usually elderly people and I don't see them so I dunno where did negi go to lol QFT?????
LOL it's not that bad in manchester on friday nights.. I like to shop in the arndale centre at night hoho~
:O how do you shop at arndale at night ?? they shut at 6 dont they? xD .. and omg i went to the apollo to see a gig and loads and loads of drunk people shouting and singing and mini skirts -nono not a pretty site
Okay .. I went too far with my wording because I was a bit angry. But you just don't wear so little clothes to a temple. These young gals think they're cool.. pathetic. I can understand people go to the temple or church to somewhat socialize and network but anything beyond that should be done outside of the sacred places. Gotta respect the place, people and earn yourself some self-respect. Dressing like that at such a place will only demean yourself even more. Yeah .. some young guys were talking to them and all. Some of the gals came over and ask what I do, where I am from, etc .. and my number and/or email .. yeah ..I guess it's time like this that I should really put my wedding band on .. lol I have to admit .. if it wasn't a religious place, I would've exchanged contact .. I was so disgusted by such behavior and action the fact that it's at a monastery ... I gave them my hometown police department number and a fake email. Luckily, there was no signal up there so you can't check the number or whatever right there .. lol My mom was angry and said something that their parents didn't teach their kids properly. Some came with their family heard that and kinda walk away ... I guess they're embarrassed too .. The lesson to take away is that dress properly and/or conservatively when you're not sure. You simply don't wanna come up as an easy gal .. OH YEAH ... some are in their late 30s or early 40s .. yuck .. lol .. these ladies appeared to have an established career or job already .. just seeking love now .. so that's why I said my wording was a bit over. They're not looking for $$$ per se.
It's kind of useless to ask people to respect a temple if you totally don't believe in these things, but I often see people just going to the Church to know more girls / boys, it happens so much now a days. I wouldn't do it myself, because I think you should respect others believes even if you do not believe it yourself. But not everybody share this opinion, so it's kind of useless to hate this people or ask them to change, because they just don't give a damn
If you want to seek the blame why girls dresses like these is blame the media... Without the media showing the celebs dressing like how they copied them and the "fashion" to follow, I don't think these girls will dress like this but shame they do At the end of the day, there some people that have conservative views and those with an open minded head doesn't seem to respect those who has those conservative views... I can happily say I'm opened minded but becuase of my parents who are very conservative I have learnt to be respectful to their views (sometimes)....
