Why can't i find some friends who share the same interest?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by tinywarrior, Mar 2, 2011.

  1. tinywarrior

    tinywarrior Active Member

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    Hey there....Everywhere I go..I seem not to fit in with other girls...most girls like nailpolish, go shopping, cooking, ..watching boys...flirten...well, u get the idea...
    Now i am not sure if i weird or i have just bad luck....I like to play games,games like World of warcraft (just to chat with friends), God of war (cos full of action and very fun).Well, if u check my scores..I would say i am not a pro..(not as good as boys,i think they have gaming genes in them)..and i dont seem to get along with boys/girls...boys find it crazy that a girl play games...and girls...they dont understand why it is fun to game...i am like..Am i from planet alone??-unsure
    Any tips how to make some friends?? And sometimes I am really bored and want to do something else...But what??
     
  2. u wont have a hard time finding guy friends thats for sure , as for girls on girl i cannot figure that out
     
  3. Flames

    Flames Out of Date User

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    Join gaming social clubs, I just joined one in uni and theres a bunch of girls who's into gaming :D
     
  4. peppermint

    peppermint Well-Known Member

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    Are you quite hardcore when it comes to games?? I know only males that are purely obsessed with them, so I do understand why you have trouble finding female friends who enjoy gaming a lot. Although there are exceptions!

    Hmm, Im not a great fan of nail polish as I have to wash hands often at work, not really a point. I do like cooking and shopping. As for games, Super Mario Land and Tetris are the only ones I can manage with. Haha... Lame! XD
     
  5. babs

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    then have guy friends!! i tend not to get along with other females or can only handle small doses of them. Not a big deal. the majority of friends are guys.
     
  6. MrCooperS

    MrCooperS Well-Known Member

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    You can't get the boys if ya don't flirt! Problem solved.
     
  7. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    thats when you join a forum to meet friends hahahahahahahah
     
  8. person

    person Well-Known Member

    ^ Yeah, kdotc is my bff =p

    Well go meet some guy friends then. Unless you want some girl friends. I'm pretty good with meshing with different personalities. If some are girly girls, I tone down my uh... 'guy jokes'.

    I would say clubs like Flames mentioned would be the best place to meet new friends. Especially ones with your same interests.
     
  9. brown_bear

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    aww dun worry i likey to game too sometimes...

    hello new friend puhehehe
     
  10. lol make a fren with me, i think im the most boring person here, cos i dont use cosmetics, i dont play games like u play,
    girls n boys all like shopping wor...everyone loves to eat...u already online writing and ppl replying guess u can make some frens here...i stay in all the time and in life i dont think i have frens...share..i think its hardto find the rite person to share! if u talk more and ask ppl frens questions im sure they will find u interesting when u have made a start! nowdays alot play ps3 i find it boring though lols...i play nds, but not always i only played mario and ocmpleted the game then i stopped lols...jus love mario,
    tell me how can i meet new frens? u can talk about anything in here but in real im shy, and not confident in speaking either duno...when u in a crowd with frens sometimes i feel left out cos i dont have anything in common but some frens do fill u in so u dont get left out! subjects u study, work, gossip n have laugh is a way of communicating! needing help with things...etc

    omg i duno what i wrote lols..
     
  11. jenny2212

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    hiya, am the same as you i like to play games online etc. hardly any of my friends do that and when they asked me what have i been doing i said iv been playing some games online and they were like ' what'? they like to go shopping and stuff and i hardly do that with them. but everyone are different in life as long as your happy with what you are doing. if you feel you don't fit in am sure there's pletny of people wanna be mates with ya. don't push yourself too hard to be mates with these girls. they'll never understand. if you are bored go and join the club somewhere or hit the gym, walks etc. there's plenty to do! just smile
     
  12. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    I guess she found someone .. nice .. hope all goes well.
     
  13. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    i thought you chose khaotic over me ;) lol
     
  14. ralphrepo

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    Don't worry, not all girls are made to be sugar and spice and everything nice; the rare breed of girl will grow up to be an FBI agent, one that kicks ass and takes names. That's about as "pro" as you can get. Hint: my sister in law is cute as a button, sassy, witty, and won't hesitate to double tap you right between the eyes with her Glock. >.<
     
  15. Flames

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    Kinky :shifty:
     
  16. fearless_fx

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    How old are you?

    By the way you type i'm going to assume late elementary or high school.

    As you grow older you'll find people will often be more understanding and open, particularly once you get to University. In high school I think I would have found it really interesting to know a girl who was into the same games I was, and whom I could relate to, but I can also see how it might come off as intimidating.

    Its a little odd how the term, "gamer" often comes off as a little derogatory. It incorporates almost every demographic now, and there's no reason to be ashamed of being someone who likes videogames...

    You're definitely not alone as a girl gamer though, especially when it comes to WoW... lots of chicks play that game, case in point, Lights:

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    imo, don't change who you are because its more convenient to fit in. Cherish the little things which make you different and you'll find that in the future you'll appreciate that you did.
     
  17. Get good at the games and whoop some ass at local tourneys and you will have more friends with the same interest before you know it
     
  18. lol lights..

    n ralph.. your sister in law is in law?
     
  19. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    I dunno your surrounding but my advice is to conform and try to fit in. Who said you can't be yourself while trying to fit in? Why live life the hard way by being different. Who know .. you might get to know more stuff/people by opening up rather than isolating/locking yourself away .. it's all part of growing up. The choice is your .. learn to social cuz you might be missing out if you keep this up.