I don't get it... I know someone that seems to have a habbit of cheating but don't know why she does it. she can never keep a relationship for more that 2 and half years. Even when she claims she has found "the one"...i kno she really loved the guy...she kept herself to him....tried to be faithful...(longest relationship)...was sure she wanted a future with him........but yet..in the end she ended up cheatin on him too........but she says she doesn't know why she did it...and that he meant everything to her......... she doesn't get it...said she didn't even like the new guy that much... and I don't get it either...... now she has lost "the one".....and is feeling miserable....and is asking me what to do...how come she always end up doin such a thing..... and i sure have no idea what to say to her... is there such a thing as having a habbit of cheating?
Some peoples like to feel of cheating and yes it goes both way. man and women. Even though she love the one that she had. It's a fling that she felt toward the new guy.
is your friend happend to be Tao_lung's girlfriend?? ahh it happens to a lotta pple... maybe she's just young and doesn't want to be tied down.. oh and when you say cheating do you mean hot freaky sex... hell or maybe she's actually into girls and aren't too keen on staying with a guy... just comfort her by giving her a hot sweaty make out session... and see how she reacts..
nope not tao lung's gf... and..er....sollies i dun make out w/ girls........but i know she's 100% into guyz so how can she stop this habit? i mean it's really tearing her up... she doesn't mean to do it....and dun really get why she does it is it even a habit? i dunno.... it keeps happening... but i know she tried hard to be faithful to her last bf...
eh... some girls are like that... just can't stand being with the same guy for too long. she'll either get over it.. err... i dunno... i'm sure she'll learn her lesson eventually.
usually girls cheat coz they r not with "the one"... they don't love the guy enough that's y they cheat when they see a "better one"... with this girl perhaps she saw a better one than her bf... or she could b too young to settle with just one guy... she young... attractive... smart... sometimes dating only one guy might make her forget about all these coz they guy doesn't make her feel special... but when a new guy shows up... he reminds her how beautiful she is... how special she is... and she just falls for it and end up cheating
cheating is bad....just be staright up with the person u're goin out with and say things rn't workign out...y cheat...
coz she might not want to b with that person... she might just wanted him for at moment... so she cheated... so sad :(
sigh...yeah i agree w/ dawn...sad but like i said, she even told me she didn't like the new guy that much... so why cheat? plus...she and her "the one" or ex..they were doing well, he treated her really well...etc etc....and even had future plans..... but her cheating thing always seems to happen after a year....this was her longest relationship...and longest time ever able to be fully faithful.... so wuz up w/ that? i mean she really thinks there is something wrong w/ her... doesn't get why she cheated.... are there like some kinda psychosis explainations for this?
plus she said she knows it's wrong.... but can't seem to help it? like her actions are doing opposites of what she wants?
Where is shadow_thi3f when we need him??!! But anyway, in regards to your friend's problem, it's definitely psychological. I mean I can't think of any other explanantion out there that would justify her not being able to stay faithful for after a certain period of time. My mom once knew this woman who had a habit of stealing. Every time she was at the store or mall, she would try to steal at least one or two items to satisfy her so called, "excitement". Similarly to your friend, this woman knew it was bad, yet she was never able to control herself. It was later discovered that she was going through a stage of depression, and the only way for her to relieve her stress or to "escape" was to steal. She described the act as being "thrilling". My point is, everything has a basis. Has your friend ever been cheated on before? Perhaps it has something to do with one of her past relationships that has traumatized her into developing this "habit". I sounds to me like your friend may need to seek some professional help.
I know someone exacaly like that. This girl, one day she would be like: Im going out with this hot guy, I love him so much. The next day she'll be saying how hot this other guy is and how much she loves him.
hard to know wot it is... but i think there is something her bf is not fulfilling her... unless she thinks by cheating with a worse guy lets her realise how good her current bf is... *shrugs*
actually, she is being treated for clinical depression very unstable girl......hard to understand her... she doesnt even understand herself.......sigh...
what are the chances of her and bf getting back together? how should i comfort her? how can i help her? how can she stop this? love is so fustrating love sux why love? forgive my ranting haven't slept all nite
honestly i doubt her bf will wanna b with her again... even if he does he won't love her as much anymore... i had lunch with a guy fd n i didn't want my bf to find out coz i knew he would get jealous... somehow he found out... he got so pissed off at me... we still fight over this sometimes n it was a year ago... and it was ONLY lunch... *sigh* anyway... good luck with ur fd... i need some luck too haha
guyz are so small breath...but u should of told him the truth...nothing to hide right? aiyo....my friend is sigh......very depressed.....
hmmm... may b it was my wrong i knew he was a "small air" guy that's y i didn't tell him... if he was ok with it then i don't mind telling him... he doesn't even let me wear short skirt >_<
