Sometimes I wonder why there're so many females who've fallen for married men? Anyone care to share why? Are married men better? Do women walk into the relationship knowing the man is married, or...? I mean, if they know the man is married, why ruin the couple's relationship? Any opinions as to why this is?
First of all, no woman runs around looking to start a relationship with a married man. A lot of times, when married men have extramarital affairs, the women do not know that they are married until emotions are invested too far into the relationship. At that point, it's difficult to let go, and some women are not able to do so. My cousin has had a relationship with a married man, not knowing that he was married with children. The most attractive quality in him was that he was able to portray himself as stable, mature, and has his priorities 'straight,' which is not something that most boys have. My cousin didn't know that he was married when she met him; she didn't know that he was married when she first started the relationship with him. I remember when they first started going out, she kept telling me about how she thought he was too good to be true... and, well... she was right. She felt cheated, dirty, and used when she found out that he was married and had children. Immediately after she found out, she severed all contact with him. And you can't entirely blame it all the woman either, especially if she was never aware of his marriage before getting involved with him. It takes two to tango... Obviously, if the man wasn't hungry, he wouldn’t eat.
yup usually it's about the confidence and experience. financially, usually married men are more stable as well. even if the guys don't say they're married, these qualities make them attractive to women i think.
some would blame the women ... reply to 'shy' -- "If they [single women] don't keep on dishing it out >> the [married] men won't keep on eating" -tongue2 hahaha .. it is only an opinion. but stablitiy and security isn't always in married men. i believe and hope there are many men out there that are also encompassed with these qualities. as for myself, it is really the women. there are visible traits to a married man. therefore, Watch out, ladies ... naivette is a dangerous substance to drink.
married man are sexy... hancc.. I am with you my friend.. hahaha.. I usually put up a sign "I am married" on my forehead... so, if they fall for you.. that's their problem.. right?
