Will he/she love us back?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by lovemenot, Mar 20, 2009.

  1. lovemenot

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    Will he love me back?

    I wish he can... Sigh.. because I still love him very much.......

    All the hurtful things he said never make me hate him or make my love to him getting less..

    And.. hell.. my love to him is growing instead of dropping.............................

    Will he love me back? Will your ex love you back? In what way???

    I know I can't do anything and better not to do anything, am I right? But what can I do?
     
  2. Flames

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    Stop contacting him and spend time with your friends...<_<
     
  3. lovemenot

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    But I hope that he will love me back... even though no one quite agree with me...
     
  4. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    its not abt what anyone says here... what matters is that u should realize whats happening and that u should accept the truth....
    i assume ur not 40 n u dont have 3 kids with him or anything (even if thats the case u should still let it be)... move on...cuz its ur only option

    so he doesnt love u.... it hurts, yes... but what are u gonna do abt it...

    sit around n hope he will come back?
    beg him to came back n love u?
    try n change his mind?

    if he really loves u theres no need to ask or convince him...

    just move on la.... holding on to someone who doesnt want to be with u is not going to make him come back.
    nor will it make ur life any more pleasant
     
  5. I agree, stop wasting your time loving someone that no longer loves you anymore.
     
  6. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    sigh... love... love me not.... or to be loved?

    will she love me.... i dont know....

    siiiigh... love...
     
  7. go pick a flower from your yard, make sure it has an odd number of petals.

    sit down.

    start pealing petals, and start by saying he will love me, he will love me not. etc.

    you will get your answer.
     
  8. lovemenot

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    Actually, I didn't do anything other than waiting.. never beg him or trying to change his mind... but I do hope... just that I didn't tell him that I hope..
     
  9. Flames

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    [sarcasm] wait...hmmm...wait an extra 50 years then..somethings bound to happen by then[/sarcasm]

    Obviously waiting will get you nowhere
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  10. lovemenot

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    I know wait will bring me nowhere.. But what to do.. I just love him... No one is believing me........
     
  11. Flames

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    You like him, you do the action, don't care what others think.
    Otherwise forget about him.
    Thats your only two option... <_<
     
  12. lovemenot

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    But I do care what he think... :(
    So sucks....... Bad things always happened to me...
     
  13. Flames

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    The you just drove yourself to the forget about him road -devil
     
  14. lovemenot

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    But who cares bout how I think? Sigh...........................................
     
  15. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    ^ oh man please stop the self pity....unfortunately these kinda things happen
    people change and its a part of the whole game....

    theres probably nothing any of us can say for u to see or believe that waiting is useless!

    just be strong and try to move on instead of thinking stupid things like he will come back to u n love u once again.... life is not a fucking fairytale.... suck it up and move on
    right now ur just making ur own life harder

    dont think ur the only person on the earth whos dealing or who has dealt with these kinda situations... if millions of ppl can get over a broken heart, why cant u

    unless ur one of the weak ones who get all psycho....=/

    what have u gained by waiting so far.....................................................................................
    just tell me...i assume nothing or u wouldnt b posting here




    best of luck to u
     
  16. lovemenot

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    Sigh.. No.. Actually no.. The no is I actually didn't think that he will come back.. Just hope for one..
    You're right.. I admitted earlier that I'm making my ownlife hard... am not self pitying..
    I know waiting is stupid..
    That's why I open this discussion..
    Maybe I'm near there.. psycho...
     
  17. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    ^if u can admit ur getting psycho ur not getting psycho lol... those ppl never ever admit!
    which means u are fine so get ur sorry ass out there n go have some fun la
     
  18. bbgirlsum

    bbgirlsum Well-Known Member

    ^ totally agree.. go out and have some fun...
    forget him... if u cant get the courage to say it to him..
    boys aint everything friends r too...
    plus boys come n go and true friends stay with u n trust me u dnt want to lose ur friends over some boy!
     
  19. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    lol this person is trolling hard
     
  20. op, can i ask you a question?

    did this dude take your virginity or something?

    why mope around if he doesn't return the feelings? by acting the way you do, you're only prolonging your state.

    if i had a girl who mopes around like you, that would probably push me even further away.

    MOVE ON.