In keeping with the cheating theme that I've been reading on some of these threads, I'd like to pose a hypothetical question: Let's say you cheated on someone or someone cheated on you. Now let's say you want to win back their hearts oo vice versa. How would you go about winning them back or is there anything the cheater can do to prove he/she is trustworthy? e.g. flowers, looking after your loved ones, a big fat diamond ring and two tickets to the carribean? -bigsmile As for me, if my GF cheated, nothing short of ritual suicide and public grovelling would make me consider forgiveness...and that's just for starters! -evil
for me , once i broke up with someone i dont want to get back to them and its kind of hard cause once u break up you sort of dont talk anymore, not in the same way anyway.
I once had an ex who cheated on me, but i decided to give her a chance to see if she will change.. Well she didnt and done it again so that was the end of that relationship. I later met her again and she was begging to get back with me, telling my family how i'm slack and shit to her, so i told her to fuck off and then explained to my family the whole situation... To this day when she see my sister, she's still complaining on how i never talk to her or pick up her call... DUH i thought she would get the hint by now... I reckon 1 chance is enough and if they abuse that then there's no turning back...
I agree with kdotc. If i ever got cheated on, i'll ditch her and start dating her friends just to piss her off, lol
A long time ago, I cheated on a girl once. Couldn't take the guilt and I was too proud to ask for forgiveness. I said sorry and broke up with her. I've never looked back. Although I haven't seen her in a long time, I'm still a little ashamed whenever I occasionally think back. I hope I never need to face her again. I suppose you're right. Cheating from whatever angle means end of relationship.
lol to be honest.. unless you were teh victim.. dont even think about getting back together.. its not something you can do to just "make-up" especially not giving getting material.. buying gifts, etc.. trust is something so fragile.. once broken.. probably cannot ever be mended.. you cant fix anything broken to its 100% original state.. not that ive been cheated on.. i dont want to sound bitter.. but cheaters suck !@#$%$^&* .. some friends have gone through it.. usually the relationship ends.. but even if you do get back together.. it usually ends later anyways.. iono.. good luck to those who still have hope theres always a way.. eveyrone is different..
it was a long relationship.. 4 years in fact... didnt want to just throw that in the bin... ended up there anyway lol
