Would date a divorced person?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by negiqboyz, Oct 29, 2008.

  1. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    The question is pretty straight forward, would you date a divorced person?

    Not that I am dating anymore ... lol but if I was single, I probably won't do so. Divorced people have a lot of baggages if you know what I mean.
     
  2. it really depends what kinda baggage i guess :p
     
  3. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    lol yeah.... i know what u mean... my opinion on this...

    if they dont have kids yet...why not
    i reckon any person who has had a good, long term n serious relationship before has baggage... just because they have been married before doesnt mean id write em off the list.... depends on person la... if they have kids its a total different story though... i might have to give it a lot more thought
     
  4. if she had kids.... i don't think i could..... and im a bit iffy even if she didn't
     
  5. emawlee28

    emawlee28 Well-Known Member

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    well , theremore expierinced
     
  6. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    dunno...depends if i can handle the 'extra' baggage...
    kids are ok....obviously i'm guna treat them nice..but if they dont like me...then what can i do? but i'd give it a go...baggage or not...
     
  7. if they have kids never! thats a taboo i wouldnt want my kids having 2 dads or raising some1 elses kid

    adoption would be different
     
  8. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    wow .. you're like the super nice gal here .. R U sure that you got your mental disorder in order??? .... lol

    yeah .. the one with kids will be scary cuz God knows what type of problems you gonna run into down the road .. you probably gonna have to deal with the kids and the ex-husband and possibly even the ex-husband's family ... yike .. complicated even just thinking about it.
     
  9. MissCheekS

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    ^ lol.... its just that... i dont write guys off the list because of their background n whatever (of course i wouldnt date a guy who killed somebody in the past or anything)...
    of course it depends on the individual... if a divorced guy is attractive n we get along i dont see a problem... so therefore, yeah i would date a divorced person

    n NO im not the super nice gal here -evil : D
     
  10. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    what if the killing is self-defense?

    you only date/consider "attractive" divorced guy .. hmm .. isn't that a bit "shallow"?? no offense intend ... based on your responses, i would think you're the type who would look beyond the "physical" and all ... am i wrong? ... lol

    oh yeah, nice gal who denies being nice gal is indeed a nice gal .. lol
     
  11. MissCheekS

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    ^ lol...i didnt say physically attractive did i...!?
    i reckon guys who are intelligent, charming, funny n caring are attractive...
    of course im not saying id date a guy who i find very very bad looking... looks matter to a certain extend

    hot guys are nice to look at but if their dead boring n have bad sense of humor then i dont c that as attractive...
    whereas a guy who is not good looking can be very funny n intelligent which will make him attractive...
     

  12. also to a certain extent.... but this goes for girls as well except if you are to marry a woman hope you wife isn't a totally hotty cause she knows it and will be using it against you in almost every situation...