Hi gentlemen and ladies, a)for ladies, for gentlemen( if u r a girl), someone is admire u but he is very broke, jobless and mayb going to bankrupcy. would u choose him to be ur bf? b)Or if ur boyfriend is very broke(ok, he's not so broke when u dated him), he gets so moody, jobless, cant even buy u a meal, but he is well- educated js a bit ego, so refuse to get a consider-low-paid-job. He wants to be the boss himself. would u leave him or stay? c) ur boyfriend is not broke, but he uses all the money or income to do others thing. ETC: modify car, bikes, gambling..., rather to buy u present or save up the money. every month the money will be all gone. would u leave him or stay? pls leave some comment!!
Only three choices??? I would choose to remain single. But if I HAVE to choose the least of three evils, I would choose A. B and C are equally bad IMO. It's not a sin being poor. But it's a sin being poor and still lack perspective: the foremost important thing us as humans has to do is to survive, and if slaving a bit of dignity can feed the stomach (and I am not talking about prostitution, although I don't see too much problem with that either) I have no idea why the person cannot put his life in perspective. These people, Chinese has a saying to descibe them "Wai choi but yu", that's how they would describe themselves, being talented but lack opportunity (a crude translation). However, I do not have any respect for those who don't work for their opportunities, if there isn't one, MAKE YOUR OWN. If you can unable to do so, suck it up and humour the other mortals. For option C, it's just immature, not quite that bad... Lack of foresight I guess?
I guess I read the question wrong. For A, I will choose yes. For B, I will choose to stay. For C, I will choose leaving.
a) no b) probably stay c) stay it doesn't really matter how much money he has, as long as he treats you nice and all. And I don't care if he can't buy me presents...I will have my own money to buy my own stuff...just don't expect me to pay for him...yea money is important to me, it's me to use on myself, not to use on him
a)stay at least love can be in the air...even if ur in a leaking apartment... and i am willing to go through the tough times with him...of he loves me... b)stay even if hes a bit ego...which i kinda dislike...i guess if i love him for him then i guess ill have to live his egoness....and he does have potental...lol c)leave even tho he might love me...but i guess he loves his things more than me...even tho it might be hard leaving him..i would...
modifying cars is cool~!!! u get to hear the pssssccccchhhhh everytime u change gears!!! lol i'd def modify my car (assuming funds are available... but since its not, won't think abt it lol) neways back to topic.... a) stay (situation can change... broke now doesn't mean broke forever...) b) leave (one who refuses to start low and work up obviously has no target in site... obviously i won't b in her picture either...) c) depends wat situation, spending it on a hobby, i'd probably stay. spend on gambling, bye
Lolz when i read the post properly...its for girls and guys but for guys you need to imagine you are a girl lol..Hope thats not too hard to do haha.
If i like him, yes. But I doubt it since I like an ambitious man. Obviously, the fact of him being jobless is not my cup of tea. However, if he is jobless not due to his own laziness; then I might accept him if I like him. I'll try to motivate him and get him to start anew. I'll try to reason with him; that whilst ambitious is good, he must also consider other ways to achieve his own personal goal. If he doesn't have enuff to set up a biz now, I'd advise him to save up by workin other jobs instead of just sitting there hoping for a miracle. I might consider to chip in some money for him, be a partner or sth. If he doesn't clean up his act, most likely I'll dump him. Gambling?! Definitely I'll dump him. Well, I'll give him an option; me or gambling. Other than that, if he's just generally a spendthrift, I'll try to have a talk with him and make him see the importance of saving for a rainy day.
@ BR: ooppss..my bad..lol anyways: I know its kinda shallow but i wont choose him.. I'd stay with him,for better and for worse.. I'd leave him, i dont like guys who gamble..