would u date a poor boy friend?, if ur bf or ur admirer is really broke

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by dannylak23, May 26, 2007.

  1. dannylak23

    dannylak23 Well-Known Member

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    Hi gentlemen and ladies,

    a)for ladies, for gentlemen( if u r a girl), someone is admire u but he is very broke, jobless and mayb going to bankrupcy. would u choose him to be ur bf?

    b)Or if ur boyfriend is very broke(ok, he's not so broke when u dated him), he gets so moody, jobless, cant even buy u a meal, but he is well- educated js a bit ego, so refuse to get a consider-low-paid-job. He wants to be the boss himself. would u leave him or stay?

    c) ur boyfriend is not broke, but he uses all the money or income to do others thing. ETC: modify car, bikes, gambling..., rather to buy u present or save up the money. every month the money will be all gone. would u leave him or stay?

    pls leave some comment!!
     
  2. 無得頂

    無得頂 Well-Known Member

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    I choose option B.
     
  3. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Only three choices??? I would choose to remain single.

    But if I HAVE to choose the least of three evils, I would choose A. B and C are equally bad IMO.

    It's not a sin being poor. But it's a sin being poor and still lack perspective: the foremost important thing us as humans has to do is to survive, and if slaving a bit of dignity can feed the stomach (and I am not talking about prostitution, although I don't see too much problem with that either) I have no idea why the person cannot put his life in perspective. These people, Chinese has a saying to descibe them "Wai choi but yu", that's how they would describe themselves, being talented but lack opportunity (a crude translation). However, I do not have any respect for those who don't work for their opportunities, if there isn't one, MAKE YOUR OWN. If you can unable to do so, suck it up and humour the other mortals.

    For option C, it's just immature, not quite that bad... Lack of foresight I guess?
     
  4. mooiced

    mooiced Well-Known Member

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    Option B, at least theres potential! LOLz
     
  5. 無得頂

    無得頂 Well-Known Member

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    I guess I read the question wrong.

    For A, I will choose yes. For B, I will choose to stay. For C, I will choose leaving.
     
  6. wats_blue

    wats_blue Well-Known Member

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    a) no
    b) probably stay
    c) stay

    it doesn't really matter how much money he has, as long as he treats you nice and all.

    And I don't care if he can't buy me presents...I will have my own money to buy my own stuff...just don't expect me to pay for him...yea money is important to me, it's me to use on myself, not to use on him
     
  7. PhY pHy

    PhY pHy Well-Known Member

    a)stay
    at least love can be in the air...even if ur in a leaking apartment...
    and i am willing to go through the tough times with him...of he loves me...
    b)stay
    even if hes a bit ego...which i kinda dislike...i guess if i love him for him
    then i guess ill have to live his egoness....and he does have potental...lol
    c)leave
    even tho he might love me...but i guess he loves his things more than
    me...even tho it might be hard leaving him..i would...
     
  8. pinkapples

    pinkapples Well-Known Member

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  9. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    modifying cars is cool~!!!
    u get to hear the pssssccccchhhhh everytime u change gears!!! lol
    i'd def modify my car (assuming funds are available... but since its not, won't think abt it lol)

    neways back to topic....
    a) stay (situation can change... broke now doesn't mean broke forever...)
    b) leave (one who refuses to start low and work up obviously has no target in site... obviously i won't b in her picture either...)
    c) depends wat situation, spending it on a hobby, i'd probably stay. spend on gambling, bye
     
  10. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Guess this is an exclusive girl thread. :)
     
  11. pinkapples

    pinkapples Well-Known Member

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    Nah it isnt i think...cos it says ladies and gentlemeni think lolz
     
  12. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    maybe its bc the questions are always referring to bf.
     
  13. pinkapples

    pinkapples Well-Known Member

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    Lolz when i read the post properly...its for girls and guys but for guys you need to imagine you are a girl lol..Hope thats not too hard to do haha.
     
  14. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    If i like him, yes. But I doubt it since I like an ambitious man. Obviously, the fact of him being jobless is not my cup of tea. However, if he is jobless not due to his own laziness; then I might accept him if I like him. I'll try to motivate him and get him to start anew.
    I'll try to reason with him; that whilst ambitious is good, he must also consider other ways to achieve his own personal goal. If he doesn't have enuff to set up a biz now, I'd advise him to save up by workin other jobs instead of just sitting there hoping for a miracle. I might consider to chip in some money for him, be a partner or sth. If he doesn't clean up his act, most likely I'll dump him.
    Gambling?! Definitely I'll dump him.
    Well, I'll give him an option; me or gambling.
    Other than that, if he's just generally a spendthrift, I'll try to have a talk with him and make him see the importance of saving for a rainy day.
     
  15. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    i think i figured that out before i posted the first comment, but thanks for letting me know.
     
  16. waikitfire

    waikitfire Well-Known Member

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    modify cars is the most stupid things that happen in this world... cause is never ending story.
     
  17. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    option B : i choose to stay
     
  18. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^Phoenixgirl,

    he's asking for ur answer on the different situations :p
     
  19. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    broke as pigeons!! lol............dannylak..u in this situation>?
     
  20. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    @ BR: ooppss..my bad..lol
    anyways:

    I know its kinda shallow but i wont choose him..

    I'd stay with him,for better and for worse..

    I'd leave him, i dont like guys who gamble..