or are u in a relaionship which u think is going nowhere but u are still with ur b/f or g/f just for the sake of it ? i.e dont want to start another relationship as it could just be as bad as the current one
what do u mean by full confidence in? if u don't love her or don't feel that its gonna work then i wouldn't marry the person. if its however like nerves a day before the wedding, that will prob pass and that will prob be nothing. cos wedding nerves do happen to a lot of ppl.
I think first you need to tell her where you want the relationship TO go. If you dont know that urself, you dont know the direction you want to take. Invest time by finding someone you truely admire and adore. Its your life, dont screw with it lol.
no...that would be the first step of a big mistake... if you really love someone with all your heart...you would automatically trust him fully...
or are u in a relaionship which u think is going nowhere but u are still with ur b/f or g/f just for the sake of it ? i.e dont want to start another relationship as it could just be as bad as the current one dear, AIYIMANKIT if u think this is going no where maybe because u r nervous as u mention marriage...if by the time u r just bf/gf, u r wasting both of ur time and ur partner time. i notice that u have a very curiousity attitude towards ur partner or lack of confident to ur ownself. why don u take it in this way..finding life partner is just a stage of life..when u found 1 then u have take a step in ur on going life style..if u break up it doesn't mean anything because she/he are not the one who willing to follow ur path...as what i trying to mean is RELATIONSHIP is just part of CIRCLE OF LIFE, love with no regret and don aspect there will be a return from it..this will make u feel much more better...
a lot of relationships go through that stage where you dont know if there is a future. the question is whether or not the two of you are willing to tough it out for a little while to see if things will work out. there are different categories of confidence. ie: conifident that they care about you or whether or not they will cheat or even confident in the fact that they will provide you with a stable environment. if you're in a relationship just for the sake of being in one why are you wasting each other's time? if you still have feelings for each other then there may be hope that you can salvage it but if there are no feelings get out of it! not every relationship is going to be a bad one. there will always be those bad ones but everyone has had bad relationships. learn from it and try not to make the same mistakes/choices.
i think i wouldn't be able to marry a person i don't have full confidence in because basically it is saying i don't think im ready to spend my life with this person... so therefore it would be rather stupid to go through with a wedding with no clear future in sight.....
ye this answer is a pretty simple one to answer and only u will know the answer to it. just look inside and see what u rele think. though if u don't want to marry her, it is better to tell her before so it can be cancelled rather than on the day as that can be a lot worse and u don't want to become a jilter. lol.
Its difficult to have full confidence with someone unless that person is yourself. But if u trust ur partner, believe that the two of u cn spend the rest of ur lives together then i would marry that person. If you have doubt the relationship will last then dnt go for it, afterall, if u think that nw, wat will u think when everything is legalised? Nothing is a 100 % in this world, but if u believe in ur partner then take the step forward.
i don't have many 'morals' in life, hahahaa i know that sounds bad but i have no other way in putting it.. but i do believe that you should NOT go out with someone for the sake of it, i mean what's the point in that? then again feelings may develop.. but if you really don't have an interest in the other person then it's unfair on both parties..
To the op, I'm not going to be bias or sexist. It all comes down to this, if you truly love someone, why does anything else matter? Otherwise, I'm not sure if you can find joy in your life by living a lie to marry someone just with $$ or status or something indirect.
if u're just being with some for the sake of it then most likely it would lead to a divorce which sux for guys since we gota chop up half our stufff....therefore don't get married unless u're sure that's ur soul mate
yes kdotc makes a very gd point there. but u can always get a prenob lol. but then again it makes the other partner question ur love lol. still safer to go for that i reckon if ur not sure.
yes i think i would marry a guy just for the sake of marriage. Ive seem to have lost all faith in the thing called love. marriage hasnt been very successful in my family so i guess it will be the same for me
I guess you can still be with the person for the sake of something even when there is no spark. Many people are like that in some ways. They have memories to cling onto. So what do you mean by confidence?? Confidence in the person on what?? In life, as a father, as a provider, what???!!!
