Have you ever thought that you stopped liking someone, but then you realized that you still have feelings for them? I posted a thread before about how I felt different towards my boyfriend after taking a close to 2-month vacation. I thought that I didn't like him anymore, because every time he called me, I wasn't really looking forward to talking to him and we didn't really have any real conversations anymore, like the way we used to talk. This Tuesday, he broke up with me. Let's call him Jack. He told me online that we should be friends - "best friends" and that we should break up because we act like strangers in school, when we see each other. He told me that everything was his fault and that he rushed things. So basically, he broke up with me online. I was actually kind of relieved at first when he broke up with me, because I was getting tired of avoiding him and I felt kinda bad to break up with him, because I felt like he has done too much for me. But, another part of me was feeling kind of heartbroken. I guess I still have feelings for him. I was going to ask him if he still had feelings for me, but then one of his friends, who I also know IMed me. Let's call him Mike. Mike told me that Jack liked another girl before him and I started going out. Let's call her Tracy. Jack and Tracy liked each other, but Mike told me that they were too afraid to ask each other out. Also, Mike said to me that Tracy was really hurt when she found out Jack and I were going out. I did know that Tracy liked Jack, but I thought it was awhile before we started going out. He then told me that during the time when I was avoiding Jack (because I didn't know whether or not I should break up with him or not), Jack was always hugging/touching Tracy and picking her up from class. Mike heard this from Tracy, but he didn't exactly witness it happening. He told me that Tracy hated Jack for this, because she knew that he was supposedly going out with me. Mike said to me that I wasn't supposed to know these things, but since I was his friend also, he wanted me to know the truth. Mike told me that Jack liked Tracy while we were going out and he thinks that Jack was just using me to get Tracy jealous. After hearing all these things, I was really hurt and even though I just heard it from Mike and it might not be true, I still believed the things he said. I thought Jack was someone special, and different from the other guys. But it turns out, he's just another one of those jerks. I decided not to ask Jack if he still had feelings for me, because even if he did, we can't be together anymore. Now, I feel so hurt and heartbroken. I just realized that after we broke up that I still care a lot about him, but I've been hearing from some people in the school that he likes Tracy now. Am I supposed to believe the things that Mike told me about Jack and Tracy?
I remember this guy I used to go out with, we'll call him Chris. We had this one mutual friend, we'll call him Eric. So Eric told me that Chris wasn't interested in me anymore and that he thought there might've been someone else he liked, which led to our eventual breakup. But then after that, we became better friends and I asked him about it, and he told me he never told anything like that to Eric. And I found out Eric lied to me because he liked me, so he wanted us to break up. And it was confirmed later because Eric asked me out. So do you think this Mike guy has a reason for lying to you? And if he did, what would it be and what would be the benefit of lying to you? I'd probably go and ask Jack about it, but then if you don't feel comfortable doing that, I don't think you can really do anything about it then. And if you find out it was true that he was just using you, then use that as a way to get over him faster. You deserve a lot better.
whoah...so many made up names lol.... So why would Mikle lie to u elaine? Unless 1. he likes you 2. he likes tracey 3. he hates mike? IF you can say yes to either ne of these three options.....maybe hes lying... if not....then i guess its true because hed have no reason to lie If its true....then yes Mike is an ass... u can do two things then u can still go and ask him if its true or not..... just for urself...at least ud know hes a jerk and he knows that u know he is one or try & leave it behind and act like u dont care towards him to save ur pride...
But the problem is, Jack doesn't exactly know that I know about these things. I don't think Mike told him that he told me these things. ><' And also, I don't think that Mike would lie about it, because he's going out with another girl right now and they just started going out recently. That's what I've been trying to do after we broke up. But every time I sign on, he keeps IMing me saying "hey, whats up" and I say "nothing" and then the conversation just ends there. I've seen him twice in school so far after we broke up. And I always pretend that I don't see or hear him. I know on the outside it seems like I don't care about him anymore and I don't like him anymore, but I still do care about him. =/
As u can see here, girls always fall for the jerk/ass...so u gotta be one...lie and cheat. As for the Elaine, the dude really have no reason to lie to u...he is being a friend , so u can accept or decline to be believe him. Look for someone else, they are trouble...as you can see and think right now.
I'm diifferent Angie We are all unique...but some characteristics are the same... Elaine needs new friends...
wow....in some ways...this is complicated...but really hard for outsiders to judge when you don't even know if u can trust them. Trust is something people earn and if you think Mike earned this, I guess u should trust him then...but I don't know Mike, so I have no way of telling u if he is trustworthy.
right, I dont know this dood...but I maintain waht I said before...but, now here;s the catch... Does Mike get along with Jack???? Is he trying to do something to this dood? IMO, this is too complicated...and on top of that, elaine already stated that u don;t like him anymore. I think the only reason she likes him again is that he found someone new and she is Jealous... What Elaine should do is to get away from that crowd and make new friends...or else there will be some recycling going on...it like, everyone f each other before, so what the point...have a freaking orgy...
Close this chapter and move on. No point in dwelling and pondering about it. Jack moved on and so you should also. Best is keep it simple and not listening to stories.
well umm..just saying "nothing" seems like ure dont really care or wanna talk to him...bu the fact that ure trying to avoid him does mean u care lol. The reason the conversation ends there though is because of you tho....its really damn hard to talk to sum1 that only gives like.single word answers and never gives input or asks about the other person. Plus it really shows that u dont wanna talk to him, whether thats your intention or not i dont noe. if u really dont want him to talk to you tho, just ignore him, thats the best way to get rid of someone
hard to say if you should believe or not cause things are being hidden, you dont know what are missing pieces what was distorted while in passing and what are made up lies (by any member)
