Your girlfriend flirting with others

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by J dot L, Oct 24, 2009.

  1. J dot L

    J dot L Well-Known Member

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    If your girlfriend flirting with others guys infront of you, or behind your back, how would you react?

    I know some people will actually consider it cheating. What about you?
    Would you "cheat" on her in revenge?
    Assuming you don't disrespect her in such a way.

    Personally, I literally went mad and screwed the one time my girlfriend did this to her friends. I'm probably being insecure, but it probably still happens. I just dont know about it. <_<
    ..and now, Every time I think about it I get furious. :no:

    She apologised, but it means F***-all to me. :mad:

    This was 3-4 months ago but I still can't get it out of my head..


    Edit: ..and by flirting, it's the touchy kind. . .
     
    #1 J dot L, Oct 24, 2009
    Last edited: Oct 26, 2009
  2. mr_evolution

    mr_evolution ( • )( •ԅ(ˆ⌣ˆԅ)

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    If you want to get back then sleep with all her friends
     
  3. ^ what if they are mainly dudes?
     
  4. jli

    jli Well-Known Member

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    dump her, thats what I would do!
     
  5. J dot L

    J dot L Well-Known Member

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    Oh wow master_g is actually right. Most of her friends are dudes. So errm mr_evolution's plan fails. XD
     
  6. Flames

    Flames Out of Date User

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    Not really, he's plan never set up a gender limit :shifty: So it's still fine :xd:
     
  7. iiimj4everiii

    iiimj4everiii Well-Known Member

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    i would feel the same way too. but im more careful now choosing a girl. if i no shes the type that flirts with other ppl and i no i cant stand that, i will not go out with her.
     
  8. mr_evolution

    mr_evolution ( • )( •ԅ(ˆ⌣ˆԅ)

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    I repeat:

     
  9. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

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    What types of flirtation are you talking about... like touching?
     
  10. april07

    april07 Active Member

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    Not only girl does these but guy too.
    If gf or bf is like this, they won't be good partner.
    So who to trust?
     
  11. Flames

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    ^ Their mummy and daddy, so you can flirt with them too
     
  12. gawain187

    gawain187 Well-Known Member

    eww ... that is gross :puke:
     
  13. Depends what u class as 'flirting' :shifty:-lol
     
  14. WeakNiZ

    WeakNiZ Well-Known Member

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    Haha, gender bender.
    Sleep with her, but dont treat her as a gf
     
  15. dude... wtf?

    you can go ahead and do that on your spare time.
     
  16. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    NO ... flirting is quite normal in conversation between gal and guy .. life is fucking bored if you can't do that .. as long as it's within boundary of course .. no touchy or whatever .. if you get upset over such trivial matter, then you have a serious problem. relationship is based on trust .. you can't get jealous over every single little thing.

    if you feel it's out of line, then you should talk to your partner about it. communicate is the key here. tell him/her if you're uncomfortable or whatever .. someone already mention, the level of flirting really differ from one to another .. what deems as flirting to you may just be nothing to me or others ..
     
  17. my girlfriend is always on my case about talking to other girls..... i do admit i may sometime step out of line when i'm not with her though....
     
  18. mui the 'fa sum' type..lol
     
  19. Flames

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    Nah, I never do the stuff I talk about
     
  20. LOL wth... I'm not fa sum :angel: