it means that they are greedy... Seriously though, if I give something to someone, I would like them to wear it, really doesn't matter whether we are dating or not...it is the thought...if I think the person is going to throw it out or won't appreciate it, then I wouldn't give it at all. Why? I earned the money to pay for it and it gets thrown out/or given away...so for all the guys out there, DON'T GIVE OUT anything.
if you don't give gifts... then how do you find a girlfriend that loves you? The girl might think:' The guy is so cheap... he doesn't even show some signs of love....'
The girl loves the gifts but not you??? If it is gifts that they are after, then they can have someone else.!!! The gold diggas dont deserve soemone that loves them..
but in order to increase the relationship between you and your gf you gotta do something... you need to make her happy somehow... personality is a great thing that influence the relationship, but I think you also need to take actions such as giving them gifts to make them happy, cheer them up
it doesnt have to mean anything...maybe she just loves rocks lol the thing is...stuff like rings....once its over its over...rings have special meanings to me...hence why i said i dont wanna receive a ring from a boyfriend until we get engaged or married lol...why dont u just go and BUY a girlfriend....showing a girl that u love her doesnt mean u have to buy her gifts and in order to make her happy you dont have to give her material things....if thats the ONLY way for u to make a girl happy well then i guess there are lotsa gold diggers out there to be ur girlfriend.... I admit receiving gifts is nice but honestly you cant keep a good girl hooked with gifts
u know u like expensive gifts too ^_^ not just jewellery but wut if ur man gave u that hand bag u always wanted .. etc... We guys understand it isn't the only thing that makes a gal happy, but it's one of the things. so if we can afford it we gotta score points where ever we can -innocent
Anyone that buys stuff for people to "score some points" don't tell me much about their substance. Buying someting for someone because you want to appreciate it is something else; It is similar to saying "I love u" for sex. like the other thread. I guess u have to find out the difference between a real friend versus a fake one...or u can go through life like that
depends who broke up with who.if the guy did it that means the girl might still like him. if the girl did it, maybe she regrets it or its just another piece to her
duh of course I know giving gifts is not the only way to make her happy.... but im saying wouldn't it be better if you do buy gifts like once per three months or whatever to increase your relationship? I mean, lets say your current/ future bf wants to marry you, and gives you a 10 dollar wedding ring, but you still love his 'inner beauty' and you're married. Then for the rest of the remaining years of your life, lets say 70 years, he doesn't give you anything anymore.... he just love you and thats enough according to him. On your b-day he dont give you a present, he loves you. You win an award of the best employer of the company... he doesn't give you a gift, he loves you. You're parents died of old age, you loved your parents so much and can't get over with it, he doesn't take any actions to cheer you up, he loves you. You're dog died and he doesn't buy you a new cute dog because his love will make it all good. etc etc etc... You might love your husband so much and accept him not doing anything to cheer you up... but wouldn't you be happier if he did give you something during your hard time? If this would go on during your remaining 70 years... I dont know, but I think a lot of relationships between the two wouldnt be that good....
im not literary meaning it like that.... but at least you know he cares a lot about you.... but ye, I think we just think different
yes of course we are different... i dont need my guy to give me material things to show me that he cares about me....
