Sex with/without Love?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by BabyRain, May 19, 2007.

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Can you have sex without love?

  1. Yes; I am very open-minded/Love doesn't mean anything to me

    37.3%
  2. No; I can only make love not have sex

    11.9%
  3. Yes;I am a virgin but I believe I can do it without love

    16.9%
  4. No; I am a virgin and I only do it if I love the person/Have sex after marriage

    27.1%
  5. I don't need both/I am a monk

    6.8%
  1. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^So u dun mind being a gigolo, in other words rite?
     
  2. ribsandbbqbeef

    ribsandbbqbeef Well-Known Member

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    Lol, I was being facetious ;) Of course I think that would be wrong, but I couldn't resist the comment lol...
     
  3. pinkapples

    pinkapples Well-Known Member

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  4. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^Well, he could still be a sinful monk... -devil
     
  5. even if it's not enough to leach out the ejaculate but his skin would b exposed to the woman's discharge... i'm not saying u'll get infected instanly... in fact some reports say the chance of catching the AIDS virus from a single act of heterosexual intercourse with an infected partner is 1 in 500 if no condom is used... but y put ur health at risk??
     
  6. ribsandbbqbeef

    ribsandbbqbeef Well-Known Member

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    Like I say again, only if both partners have a break in their skin, or if the genital discharge comes in contact with broken skin will there be a risk of infection. The fact that intact sking rubs on intact skin around the condome will not transmit STDs. That's why it's ok to shake hands with someone who has AIDS. Heck, even kissing someone with HIV will not transmit the virus.

    HIV infection of 1 in 500 comes out to 0.2% with UNPROTECTED sex. With protection, the rate is even lower.

    I'm not advocating unsafe sex or irresponsible sexual behavior. My goal is to make sure people know the facts so they can protect themselves properly when they do decide to have sex. I respect your choice of abstinence if that's the case, but for those on the forum who choose to have casual sex, they should know how to use condoms properly and what their real risks of infection is. I deal with this almost every day & I counsel plenty of teens and young adults in their 20s on proper sexual behavior and protection. I've also treated many people with STDs. So please, just practice safe sex, but don't be intimadated into abstinence if you do choose to have sex or think it's the right time for you.
     
  7. MAIKEL19

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    no

    i will only do it with somone after i'll marry her and love got nothing to do with sex if i love somone ahy do i have to expres my love by sex rher alot of difrent ways to expres your love thise my way of life i belive thise will be the best for me and not because of my religion i do it for me and me only and i woukd also love to find agirl that shes also a virgin but i probebly wont find one they are very hard to find from where i cime from
     
  8. ab289

    ab289 Well-Known Member

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    @ BRain #134: girl, my religion tells me that i'm not suppose to do with animals! haha ... i might create a whole bunch mutated children that i dont' want. and when they grow up they might want to take over the world and that's against my religion. are you sure it's a sin to have girl on girl action? and speaking of that, i miss PA for 1 day and you took away your girl on girl action?

    @pinkapples #143: lol ... i chose monk becoz i thought that was a funny option. It has nothing to do with who I really am!

    @BRain #144: oh yah ... you have child molesting priests and pastors. why can't I be a sinful monk? NOW, i'm not saying i want to molest children; but i do want to keep my options open as to whom I have sex with (both legally and consensually). PLUS, my religion allows alot of freedom on that. hehe ...
     
  9. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    <_< It is ILLEGAL to have sex with children

    n yeah, i can't be spending all my time at the beach with my E.Twin u know.


    .... I haf been marked....
     
  10. ab289

    ab289 Well-Known Member

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    who's marking u?
     
  11. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Look at the sign... what does it say? -unsure
     
  12. ab289

    ab289 Well-Known Member

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    what sign? the one on your hand? i am illiterate! whereas my sign ... universal sign. hehe
     
  13. _keke_

    _keke_ Well-Known Member

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    hmm u dont have: No, must both love and have sex :p
     
  14. oh my... keke here is kinky.... hahaa
     
  15. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Not as kinky as you? -cool
     
  16. what..... no..... you think im some sort of horned up animal or what.... lol

    you saw what i picked lol
     
  17. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^Well, you knew it was a public poll so, it's possible that was just a cover-up, no? :p
     
  18. ......... why you making this up?

    that was my honest answer (no jokes)

    and im serious.
     
  19. j_ayumi

    j_ayumi Member

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    eeehhhhhh.. i dont think i can sleep with someone without the LOVE. Love always come first. To me, no love means no sex, end of story!
     
  20. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Ok, vote plz.. -devil


    Wow, guess who voted "No; I am a virgin and I only do it if I love the person/Have sex after marriage"

    THE great aniking_7...